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December 16, 2011 By: Stephanie2 Comments

I’m super proud of myself because I actually got my Christmas cards in the mail and made applesauce ornaments. I’m trying to only do one or two things a day so I don’t overexert myself and bring on labor because I’d really like to hold off on delivering until after Christmas.

The first recipe is one for old-fashioned applesauce ornaments I found last year, although I can’t remember where I got it. We’re making it into a tradition to make these each year as a gift for our Sunday school teachers.

It’s the easiest recipe ever.

1. Mix equal parts of cinnamon and applesauce. (I always find it needs extra applesauce, though)
2. Roll out dough and cut into shapes with cookie cutters.
3. Use a straw to poke a hole so that ribbon can be added later for hanging.
4. Let air dry for several days until hardened or bake in a low oven (175-200 degrees) for a few hours, checking frequently after the first hour.

Some recipes for these ornaments include glue, but it doesn’t seem to be necessary and Abby kept eating the dough so I’m glad we didn’t use it. I used 3 containers of cinnamon and 7 single-serving cups of unsweetened applesauce and got 3 dozen+ ornaments.

And while we’re talking about recipes, I thought I’d share a dinner I made last week that was a big hit with the kids. Abby had seconds and Nicholas had thirds. We had no left-overs that night & it was pretty easy to make. I modified it from a much more complicated Pampered Chef recipe for pinwheel sandwiches.

Philly Steak & Cheese Bake

1 package of refrigerated crescent roll dough
1/2 lb thinly sliced deli roast beef
Several slices of thinly sliced cheese, I used white American
1/2 green pepper, diced
1/4 medium onion, diced

In a skillet, saute diced onion and pepper until tender.
Shred roast beef and add to skillet to heat through.
In a round baking dish, lay our crescent dough in a pinwheel pattern
Lay a few cheese slices on top of the dough
Pour beef, onion, and pepper mixture into dish
Top with additional cheese slices
Fold dough over mixture
Bake at 375 for 15-20 minutes or until the top is golden brown.

We served ours with spinach. It’s very heavy, so it would pair nicely with a fresh salad.

I love collecting recipes. I’m in the middle of putting together a family traditions cookbook for our mom’ s group and it’s been fun to see what kinds of food each family is submitting.

 

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Maternity Photos

December 12, 2011 By: Stephanie1 Comment

I don’t know about you, but I’ve always had a dream of letting my weight balloon to almost 200 pounds, then posting half-naked pictures of myself on the internet, stretch marks and all. (kidding. sort of.) We keep it real, people.

My amazing talented friend, Satoko, took some maternity pictures for me over the weekend and I’m so excited to share some of them with you.
I’m officially in my 9th month, so I am HUGE. It probably would have been a better idea to do the pictures a few months back, but since this is probably the last time my body will be growing a new life I wanted to commemorate it.
I am really happy with the way they turned out, I just wish I would have scheduled an appointment when I had a few less stretch marks. It’s all good, though.

and because I told you we keep it real…

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Mommy Guilt Is Dumb

December 9, 2011 By: Stephanie2 Comments

This year I’m kind of a Grinch. Not in a bad attitude sort of way, but in a rob innocent little children of decorations and experiences sort of way.

In the past 12 days, we’ve had a gas leak and I’ve been hospitalized twice for preterm labor issues. (Don’t worry, everything’s ok, I just started having contractions and some other gross labor-y symptoms at 34 weeks and since that’s too early to deliver they put me on a special medicine to stop them.) I’m at 35 and a half weeks now so we are getting really close to the point where it will be ok if she decides to come a little early.

Christmas Mom Guilt

So we (I) decided that this year we shouldn’t really bother doing much decorating for Christmas. We put up our pre-lit tree and that was it. No ornaments, no outside lights, no wreaths, nothin’. Nick was upset about the lack of ornaments, so we made a deal with him that any ornament he made at preschool or Sunday school could go on the tree. Then he started talking about when the Elf On A Shelf was coming. Geez, kid, you are 4. How do you remember that from last year? So I guess we might need to dig that out too, but I am not doing any of the adorable ideas from Pinterest. He can sit on top of a cabinet and stay there for 3 weeks.

I wanted to have apple butter canned to give away. I didn’t do it.

I wanted to have over a dozen heating pads made, I’ve only made half.

I wanted to make applesauce ornaments for the Sunday school teachers. Haven’t gotten to that yet. Not sure if I will.

I wanted to crochet a few scarves to give as gifts. I’ve made none.

We’re not making Christmas cookies. (Unless they are already decorated with the reindeer face slice and bake kind.)

The Christmas event at Dutch Wonderland (a local amusement park) and the ride on the train with Santa at the Strasbourg railroad? Not happening.

Neither is my tradition of going outlet shopping with a girlfriend.

We might not even wrap the kids’ presents to go under the tree. (Eddie & I debate this every year. I came from a family where Santa didn’t wrap presents because that is a lot of extra work/mess, but Eddie prefers Santa’s presents wrapped so that the kids can concentrate on one gift at a time and because it looks nice.)

I spent way more money buying store-bought gifts this year for the kids than I did last year when I made almost every single one.

My kids have hardly had any vegetables for the past several weeks because I’ve been feeding them Chef Boyardee and frozen chicken nuggets. (Well, they aren’t frozen anymore when I serve them.)

But why is it so hard to give yourself a break? Nobody’s expecting me to do anything. Lots of people have even asked if we were planning to even attend family holiday traditions because they would understand if I just wanted to stay home.

When Eddie comes home from work and starts cleaning up around the house because I didn’t do it I feel guilty.

When we look across the street and see the neighbors’ house all decked out and pretty I feel guilty because we’re certainly not giving them much to look at right now.

When I have to call and ask people to watch my kids for an indefinite amount of time because I’m being sent into the hospital again I feel guilty.

When I know the awesome plans I had to make people gifts this year and what they will be getting instead, I feel guilty.

Knowing my sister is spending her last college vacation ever staying at my house to watch my kids and cook and clean for us while I’m having my c-section makes me feel kind of guilty.

I know I shouldn’t because it’s really, really stupid.

I know everyone is happy to help and that I can’t do everything, but I also wanted to make this year extra special for Nick & Abby since they will be feeling left out when the new baby comes.

It’s dumb to think that they even care.

We try to focus more on Jesus’s birthday than the commercial side of it, but Santa will still be coming with every toy on their list, plus some. (Lucky for us all they asked for was an airplane and a Dora doll.)

There will still be cookies, although they might be Oreos. When you are in preschool a cookie is a cookie.

My family still gets fed. (And Nicholas still tells me, “Mommy, you are a good chef-er.” when I feed him frozen pizzas.)

They like driving around at night looking at other people’s Christmas lights.

They’ll probably look back at this year just like all the others, but I still know it’s different.

And at the end of it we’ll have one of the best Christmas presents ever, another one of these:

 
 
 

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Our Little Scare

November 29, 2011 By: Stephanie2 Comments

First, I hope you had a great Thanksgiving holiday!

I wish I had a picture to go with this post, but it was pandemonium here for a few hours yesterday & I didn’t even think of taking one in all the chaos.

So…Sunday we were out of town visiting with our parents. When we came back that night there was a faint, weird smell in our house. Eddie & I looked at each other and were like, “What is that? Is that gas? We’d know if it was gas, right?” Like I said, it was very faint, we figured it was probably just because the heat had kicked on while we were out and you know how the heat smells a little funny the first few times it runs for the season?

Then yesterday (Monday) I took the kids out to meet my grandmother for lunch. When we got back as soon as I walked in I noticed the gas smell was much stronger. I called the gas company and they told us to get out of the house right away, leave windows open, and not to touch anything electrical. They said they would be responding immediately and that I should stay close to the property, if possible because they would need a homeowner present when they got there.

Gas Leak

So the kids and I waited outside. I grabbed a few toys from the garage on our way out and I had some candy canes in my purse to entertain them with. I called Eddie to let him know what was happening.

The gas company took forever to respond. I literally waited for almost two hours outside with a toddler and a preschooler and me being 8 months pregnant, just waiting & hoping our house didn’t explode in the meantime. The kids were terrible because it was supposed to be nap time & they were exhausted. At one point Nicholas tried to sleep in a pile of leaves in the gutter. It was not fun. At all. But I was very thankful that we’ve been having unseasonably warm weather for this time of year because it would have been a lot less fun if it was cold & icy.

Eventually, I called Eddie & my in-laws (my father-in-law works for the Baltimore gas company) to see how long it should be taking to respond. Eddie got annoyed & called the gas company again to ask how much longer it would be and they said they were very busy with emergency calls and they had no idea how much longer we would need to wait, so he called me back and said to call 911 and ask the fire department to come shut off the gas.

So I did.

About 5 minutes after that the gas company truck pulled up. I had a fleeting thought to call the fire department and tell them never mind, but we could already hear the sirens.

A lot of them.

And the next thing I knew, there were 4 fire trucks and an ambulance lining our street and lots of curious people looking on.

One of our neighbors ran over and offered to take the kids and the dog until things calmed down.

For 20 minutes or so there were about 20 uniformed men swarming our house and our yard, then the fire trucks started to disperse to respond to other emergencies, I’m assuming.

At this point, I was actually praying that there was a gas leak because I felt really guilty about taking all that manpower away from other actual emergencies, especially if it was going to turn out that I was just some crazy pregnant lady who thought she smelled something. Plus, it was super embarrassing that our house kind of looked like an episode of hoarders because we’d been out every day since Thanksgiving and hadn’t even finished cleaning up from that.

I’m not crazy. The guy from the gas company said he found two gas leaks. He showed me where they were after he’d shut everything down and it was safe to be in the house again. The bad news was that they don’t fix them, we’d need to get a plumber out and he thought it would be a while before that happened because apparently there were a crazy amount of emergency gas leaks in our area yesterday. (?)

I called Eddie back to update him & he was able to get in touch with a plumber, but they didn’t know when they’d be able to get out and they said that if the furnace was affected they might need to order parts and it could take a few days before they could fix it.

That meant we’d have no heat, hot water, or use of our stove indefinitely. That’s not a situation that’s ideal for a very pregnant lady with very young kids, so I started making calls trying to find a place I could take the kids. We were fortunate enough to get several offers but decided to go to my grandmom’s house.

I had already loaded a suitcase in the car and was on the way out the door with the kids when Eddie called and said he was on his way home early, the plumber had called and said he could be there in 45 minutes. The kids and I stayed put, hoping that the plumber would be able to fix it and we wouldn’t have to go anywhere after all.

And he did! Yay! The plumber, Charlie from Haller Plumbing, was very nice. He could only find one of the leaks, which made me very nervous since the guy from the gas company had shown me two spots, so he ran 3 separate leak tests to prove the other leak the gas company found had been a false positive. Then before he wrote out the bill he asked if we had a printer and told us that we could print a coupon off of their company website to save us $25 off the bill. AND when Eddie asked him about a totally separate issue we’d been having with the furnace giving off too much condensation, he went ahead and fixed that for free.

If we had to have a gas leak, I’m glad that this was the way everything went down because everything turned out fine.

Guess what the problem was?

One of the nuts was loose at a joint.

I think Eddie was a little annoyed that it took an entire day, the gas company, 4 fire truck crews, an ambulance (I still don’t know why they sent an ambulance, but they did, maybe in case there was an explosion while they were here?) a plumber, and a $200 bill to fix something he could have done in 30 seconds with a wrench, but once you smell gas you don’t have much of a choice.

Gas leaks are really serious (as in your entire house can blow up if you do so much as turn on a light switch) so if you ever smell the sulfer-ish rotten egg smell, get out of your house and call your gas company or the fire department right away.

The other thing I learned is that I should probably keep an emergency kit in the car with extra clothes, diapers, dog food, toiletries, etc. in case something like that happens again because the whole time we were stuck outside I was thinking “What I am I going to do if we can’t go back in at all today?” “I only have 2 Pull-Ups for Abby and a change of pants for Nick in my purse…” “Shoot. I should have grabbed the sippy cups…” and making a list of stuff I was going to need to go to Target & buy just so we could get through the night. It would have been much easier if I hadn’t been worrying about that too.

Lessons learned, I guess.

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Couponing Update & 1st Month in Review

November 18, 2011 By: Stephanie3 Comments

1 Month Couponing Review

First, a reminder about why I’m doing this whole couponing experiment…

{smile}

Ok, here is what my $20 “learning how to coupon” budget bought this week.

Our town has 2 grocery stores, Weis and Giant. I usually prefer Weis because they are less crowded and the Giant is in a shopping center with a busy parking lot that is not fun to navigate with multiple young kids, Weis has less expensive regular prices, and Weis doubles up to 4 of the same coupon per transaction, whereas giant only doubles the first coupon.

However, Weis doesn’t stock as many items, so I’m finding that a lot of the coupons I have I can’t redeem there simply because they don’t sell the products.

I knew this would be a good week to try Giant because I was running low on prenatal vitamins and they had the brand I use on sale, buy one get one free, plus I had coupons for them.

While I was there I saw a few other things I had good coupons for, so I bought some of those as well.

Cheerios: On sale 2/$5 + used 2 $1 off coupons = 2 boxes for $3 or $1.50 each (normally $3.79 each)

**My favorite deal: Dole salads: on sale 2/$5 + the produce department had put $1 off peelie coupons on each because they expire in a few days + used two 75 cents off coupons + one of the 75 cent coupons doubled (That’s $5-$2-$2.25)= $0.75 for 2 or 38 cents each! (Regularly $3.69 each)

Goya Adobo seasoning: $1.39, not on sale – $1.10 (55 cent coupon doubled)= $0.29

Kraft Shredded Cheese: On sale 2/$6 + used 2 coupons for $1.50 each= $3 for 2 or $1.50 each (regularly $3.59 each) I have a big stockpile of shredded cheese after this first month, but it freezes well according to Google, so we’ll see about that.

Idahoan Instant Potatoes: On sale for $1 – $1 off coupon= FREE

Nature Made Prenatal Vitamins: on sale 2/$10.77 + 2 $1.00 off coupons= 2 for $8.77 or $4.39 each (regularly $10.77 each)

Altogether I paid $15.81 after using coupons & the store card, and more than half of that went toward the vitamins. The original total was $46.57, so I saved about 66%.

I was happy I was able to save more than 50% on every item I bought this trip, I only bought stuff we normally use anyway (except maybe the instant potatoes, but, hey, they were free) and this was my first time saving on produce.

So, to review, this month I’ve used coupons to buy all this stuff for $93:

I think $93 seems like kind of a lot, but I have managed to save at least 30%-50% off the total each time, which is certainly better than paying full price and once you get the hang of it, it gets kind of fun to match up the sales & coupons. I actually bought/saved a lot more than I showed you on my regular grocery store trips, these are just the times I tried to stay under $20 for practice.

What I learned:

  • It takes a few weeks to build up your coupons and for the first few weeks, it will be hard to match anything up with store sales.
  • Even though you look kind of silly, it really is easier to take an organized coupon binder to the store with you
  • Look up the circulars online before you go to the store. I also look up regular prices on my store’s ishop website (they let you order groceries online and even if I’m not placing an order, it’s a good resource for looking up prices of things that aren’t advertised in the circular)
  • Print multiple copies of each coupon so you can use 2 coupons on buy one get one free deals.
  • Search several different zip codes when looking up coupons online.
  • Follow a service like Couponpro on Facebook because they do all the hard work for you, then all you have to do is print the coupons as they come up.
  • Most of the high-value coupons are from liking companies on Facebook.
  • Since I’m not trying to stockpile 100’s of items, I am fine just printing 2 of each coupon from my home computer. I did not use any Sunday paper coupon inserts, I just printed everything online from coupons.com and the Red Plum and Smart Source websites or Facebook or manufacturer websites.
  • If a coupon has a store logo on it but says “manufacturer coupon” at the top, you should be able to use it at different stores, especially if the bar code starts with a 5.
  • Only coupons that start the barcode with a 5 will double.
  • Oh, and this guy is awesome.

Are you trying non-extreme couponing too? Do you have any tips?

Curious about my previous couponing adventures?

How Do You Coupon?

$20 Coupon Challenge

Coupon Monday

Coupon Monday, Round 2

Coupon Monday (on a Friday)

Back to Non-Extreme Couponing

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Coupon Monday (on Friday)

November 11, 2011 By: Stephanie2 Comments


Oops, I hit publish too early. My bad.

This week I tried Walgreens.

My zip code didn’t have a lot of coupons listed when I searched coupons.com this week, so I started fooling around and entering other zip codes. Is that cheating? I don’t know, but I’m not sure why when I searched my zip code only 112 coupons came up and when I searched the zip code of the Target that is only two miles from my house 148 popped up, so I don’t really feel bad for experimenting with it.

Couponing Without Inserts

I went a little over my budget and wound up spending about $22 after tax, but I did save over $29.

I broke it into two separate transactions and checked out with all the deals that I knew would print register rewards first.

The best deal was the children’s medicine. Walgreen’s had Triaminic on sale 2/$10, plus they gave you back $3 in Register Rewards (a coupon for $ off your next purchase) when you bought 2 AND there was a manufacturer coupon attached to the box for $3 off when you bought 2, so they wound up only costing $2 each.

All together for $22 I bought:

  • 2 Boxes of children’s cold medicine
  • 2 boxes of Kleenex
  • 2 bottles of hand sanitizer
  • Gas X
  • Baby wash
  • Glade odor eliminator
  • Windex spray
  • Windex wipes

I also managed to save 72% at the grocery store & that time I only spent $9 for:

  • Sargento shredded cheese
  • 2 containers of cashews
  • 2 greek yogurts
  • 2 boxes of instant potatoes
  • 2 boxes of popcorn
  • 2 tubs of margarine
  • and some Halloween decorations for next year

That one did feel pretty good. Oh, and I put my coupons in a binder. Baby steps.

Curious about my other couponing adventures? Here’s everything I’ve written about my experience clipping coupons.

How Do You Coupon?

$20 Coupon Challenge

Coupon Monday

Coupon Monday, Round 2

Couponing Update & 1st Month Review

Back to Non-Extreme Couponing

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Coupon Monday

November 7, 2011 By: Stephanie1 Comment

Time to show you what I got for my $20 coupon practice this week:

Sorry, the photo is so dark, all this stuff is now hiding from little eyes until Christmas.

The best deal by far this week was that I only paid $1 each for those Toy Story Operation games, which were regularly $15.99 at Target. Toys R Us has them advertised in their weekly ad this week for $1, but of course, they sold out in no time, so I took the ad to Target & they did a price match for me at the customer service desk. They had a limit of 3, but that was fine with me because I’m not trying to be a hoarder, I just wanted some Christmas gifts. It’d also be great to donate to Toys for Tots or if your office or church does an angel tree. It was a lot of fun to watch the register total change from $48 to just $3 plus tax.

Creative Ways to Find Coupons

The wrapping paper I got with my $5 off a $10 purchase coupon from liking Hallmark on Facebook. They are out of coupons on FB now, but I got the same coupon in my latest issue of Rachel Ray magazine, FYI. The wrapping paper is normally $5/roll, but they had a buy one get one for 99 cents sale, so I bought 4 plus a roll of tape and paid a little over $9 after tax.

I also bought a DVD of Marley & Me, which was on sale at our F.Y.E. in the mall for $9.99, and I had a $3 manufacturer coupon I printed off the internet a few weeks ago, making it $6.99.

So I spent $3 at Target, $9 at Hallmark, and $7 at F.Y.E.

I also saved more than $37 off our grocery bill & took the total down from $108 to just $70 and change.

I am finding that I now have too many coupons to just stuff in an envelope in my purse like I have been doing. It was taking way too much time at the store to dig through my envelope every time I found an item and wanted to pull out the matching coupon.

I’m going to have to start a binder, and I found a free download of one I think will work well for me here.

It’s a little discouraging that I’m not saving nearly as much as those women on TV, but 1/3 of the grocery bill is pretty decent, I guess, especially considering I only use coupons I can print for free off the internet. I find it makes me feel better if I go home and use our online banking system to transfer the amount of money I saved into our savings account.

I’m going to start doing this every week with the money I save using coupons at the grocery store. I can’t afford to do it every time I save in any store, like Friday when I spent $70 at Kohl’s, but saved over $175, but I figure with the grocery money I would have spent it anyway if I wasn’t couponing, so I’m not going to miss it out of our weekly budget & it will be a good way to build up our savings. If I can save about the same amount every week, $35-$40, that will be an extra $150 a month, or $1,800 a year, in our savings account. (Sidenote: If you start doing that when your child is a baby, by the time they are 18 you’d have over $32,000 set aside, not even accounting for interest. Just saying. Coupons might just be our college fund.)

Curious about all of my couponing adventures?

How Do You Coupon?

$20 Coupon Challenge

Coupon Monday

Coupon Monday, Round 2

Coupon Monday (on a Friday)

Couponing Update & 1 Month in Review

Back to Non-Extreme Couponing

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Good Deals This Week

November 3, 2011 By: Stephanie1 Comment

With only 7 weeks until Christmas and only 8 more until the new baby comes, I have some serious shopping (and even more serious budgeting) to do.

I did find some good deals this week that I thought I’d share with you.

Disneystore.com is having a free personalization & free shipping sale, but today is the last day. They have all sorts of blankets, shirts, mugs, jackets, and even children’s books that you can have personalized. Use the code FREENAME.

Kohl’s is offering an extra 15% off with the code TURKEYFB15. Sorry if this is too much information, but I just bought two good quality bras for a total of $25. (Those suckers can be expensive!)

Hallmark is offering a $5 off any $10 purchase coupon to the first 35,000 people who print it from the Special Offers section of their Facebook page. Note: You can’t print it from Firefox, you have yo use a different browser. (I’m hoping I can combine this with this Yankee Candle coupon, if I can it will make the large jar candles that normally sell for over $20 only about $8.75, which is less than the price of the smallest jars.

Until November 8, Snapfish.com is offering 2 free photo books when you buy one with the code MYFALLBKS. I had some trouble with this one, but I called customer service & they were able to fix the problem in about 10 minutes, so I got 3 of the 5×7 photo books for $17, including tax & shipping.

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All in Good Time

November 2, 2011 By: Stephanie1 Comment

November is National Adoption Month & next week I’ll be sitting on a panel to share our story. I got an email a few days ago containing some questions for our panel, and most of them were similar to the ones I get all the time. “How did you know you were ready?” “What are the steps I need to take?”etc. I thought this would be a good time to share our story here as well.

As to the first question, honestly, it was just a deep, gut-wrenching need that I knew to be a calling from God. I didn’t hear any voices, I just felt a very heavy void and I knew in my heart that this was the way to fill it, the same way that you know eating a sandwich will help you fill the void in your stomach when you are hungry. It was primal and instinctual and I didn’t see it as my choice to make. At first Eddie didn’t feel called at all. In fact, he told me more than once he thought I needed to see a psychiatrist. We’d only been married for about 6 weeks and we were only 22. It was a test of our marriage, but I was very convicted I couldn’t go wrong following what I believed to be a calling from God. So I did what any good wife would do, I nagged. A LOT.

As to the steps to take, they are very different in every situation. We went through foster care in the state of Florida, because that’s where we were living at the time. Private and international adoptions are very different, other states are different, and most adoptions in Florida are different than the way ours went down. All I can tell you is our story. And it’s a long story, one that spans over the course of several years, so I figured the easiest thing to do would be to share it as timeline. Then I will post a Q & A session with some of our most commonly asked questions.

Here we go…

Our Journey Into Parenthood:

June 2006-Eddie moves to Florida to start his first job after college. Steph follows a few weeks later, on June 19th, after finishing her first year as a teacher, to start looking for a teaching job. She finds a temporary summer job at a gym in the meantime.

September 2006-Steph and Eddie get married and are starting a new life in a new city, Tampa, FL.

October 2006- Steph starts obsessing about adoption & Eddie thinks she is nuts (She also started a new teaching job this month, which came with an incredible amount of stress, and is dealing with the ramifications of leaving her previous job, which did NOT end well. Those are both stories for another time.)

Winter 2006/2007- Steph spends 6 months nagging nagging non-stop and researching adoption.

March 16,2007- Nicholas is born in Tampa, practically 9 months to the day after Steph moved here. We believe this was not a coincidence.

April 2007- Go to orientation with the foster agency, Eddie reluctantly agrees mostly so Steph will shut up. (We don’t know it yet, but our son is 6 weeks old and living with his birth mom in the Salvation Army homeless shelter. He will enter foster care in just a few weeks.)

Summer 2007-Get fingerprinted, fill out paperwork, get approved for classes

September 2007- Take a 10 week parenting class, during which Eddie’s heart changes dramatically. (We don’t know her as his foster mom yet, but Debbie, the woman taking care of Nicholas, visits our class to share her story and we meet some of her children.)

Fall 2007- Several home study interviews

January 2008- Home Study is approved

Winter/Spring 2008- Wait……Our family is presented at a few “match” meetings (when the social workers meet to decide which family they think would be the best match for a foster child) but we are not selected. At this time, we think we are waiting for a child over the age of 6

April 17,2008- Driving to a meeting after work, Steph gets a call that there is a one-year-old little boy available. Because of his age and the fact that he is not a minority, he is not eligible for adoption through the state, although he is in foster care. It is considered a private adoption, we have already been chosen, there will be no match meeting, providing we can afford to pay $5,000 in legal fees and his foster mom agrees that we are a good match for him. We can meet him tomorrow. There will also be none of the normal services, like Medicaid until age 18 and, in the state of Florida, college tuition, since this is now being considered a private adoption.

April 18, 2008- We meet Nicholas and his foster family at a McDonald’s.

Mid-April-mid-May 2008- The social workers want the transition to be fast because he is so young. We’d been preparing for an elementary school-aged child for a year, now we have 3 weeks to prepare our home for a baby. Steph’s co-workers throw an adoption shower and are very helpful donating clothes and furniture. For a few weeks Nicholas is not allowed to spend the night with us, we start visiting with him every day for a few hours, moving up to more and more time.

May 14, 2008- Nicholas moves in.

May 15, 2008- Nicholas has to have a surgical circumcision. It had been previously scheduled, but the timing could not have been worse. His first day with his forever family & our first full day as his parents, we spent the morning in the surgery center, then Eddie went back to work and I spent my first day as a mother getting “baptized by fire” because the anesthesia made him very sick.

Summer 2008-Being a teacher, Steph is off from work and stays home with Nicholas. There is a 90 day trial period before we can go to court and make everything official. Social workers visit to check on us and Nicholas is still getting his medical care through the state because we can’t put him on our insurance until we go to court. We also discover we are pregnant with Abby and decide to move closer to family. Eddie’s company agrees to let him transfer to Pennsylvania after the adoption is finalized. Steph’s principal agrees to let her keep her job until it’s time to move. The Florida housing market has collapsed and there is no telling how long it will be before we can sell our house, but we put it on the market and Steph’s dad helps us buy another house in Pennsylvania.

October 1, 2008-We can finally go to court and sign the papers. We are even given a new birth certificate with our names on it. Nicholas is ours. It’s been 2 years since we started thinking about adoption.

November, 2008- We get an offer on our house. We are going to lose more than $50,000. We have to take it.

December 12, 2008- Family and friends help us pack and make the drive from Florida to Pennsylvania. We drive through the night hoping Nicholas will sleep. We get a flat tire at 1am. What should be a 17 hour drive winds up taking 23 hours. Steph is 5 months pregnant.

February 2009- Steph is 7 months pregnant and hospitalized twice for early labor/contractions & put on modified bed rest. We need to hire a part-time nanny to take care of Nicholas.

April 21,2009- Abby is born.

That is our story. Some of the details might not seem important, but they turned out to be vital later when we discovered that Nicholas had many more attachment issues than anyone thought he would, considering he was only 13 months old when we were placed with him.

Regardless of the trails we have faced with him, or maybe because of them, Nicholas is just as much ours as our biological children. I’ll talk about that more in my next post.

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Coupon Monday

October 31, 2011 By: Stephanie2 Comments

It’s week 2 of my $20 coupon challenge. I’m new at couponing, so to ease myself into it I’m seeing what I can get for $20 each week.

$20 Coupon Challenge

This week I tried Target. I bought this lot for $15.45:
1 Axe Shower Gel, which came with a bonus travel size
10 Bic Pens
1 Pack of Advil
Paper plates (I didn’t use a coupon for those, we just needed them)
Shout laundry stain remover
2 cans cream of mushroom soup
3 cans cream of chicken soup
2 cans tomato soup
3 cans chicken noodle soup

The best deals were the soup and the pens.

The pens were free with a coupon I got for liking Bic on Facebook, and the soups were on sale this week at Tar-jay for between 59-62 cents each & I had 2 coupons from the Campbell’s website for $1 off when you bought 5. So they wound up being about 40 cents each. If I wanted to start a stockpile (which I’m still debating) I think I’d go back for a few more of those because I actually do use quite a bit of condensed soup in crockpot meals or for the kid’s lunches, plus there are usually quite a few canned food drives going on this time of year and they’d be good for donations.

Have you found any good coupons this week?

Check out all of my couponing posts below!

How Do You Coupon?

$20 Coupon Challenge

Coupon Monday

Coupon Monday, Round 2

Coupon Monday (on a Friday)

Couponing Update & 1st Month in Review

Back to Non-Extreme Couponing

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