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Kids Are Speaking Up About Their Schools And We Can Listen: Hear Me

June 8, 2015 By: Stephaniecomment

The Campaign for Fair Education Funding

 

 

 

I have told you before that education is a cause very close to my heart. I have been a public school teacher in three different states, and I now send my own kids to public school. So when my family got the opportunity to participate in the Hear Me portion of the Campaign for Fair Education Funding to “turn up the volume on kids’ voices,” I jumped at the chance to be heard!

My kids are fortunate that we have always had the option to choose our residence based on the reputation of the schools in the area. Living in a good school district is always our number one priority when choosing a place to live. But some families don’t have the option to just pick up and move if their schools aren’t delivering for their students, and right now the way that schools are funded is not entirely fair. 

I saw the differences for myself when I was a classroom teacher. When I taught in a high-income district, we had the money for resources like a fully stocked library, a science lab and state-of-the-art computers. We also had lower student-to-teacher ratios that certainly put our students at an advantage. Once the PTA raised $100,000 in one school year to put a shade cover over the playground. In comparison, in my low-income school the teachers were not even provided with sufficient paper to make copies for the tests required as part of the curriculum. I asked my church for donations of reams of paper, and the teachers acted like it was Christmas when they each got a pack in their mailbox. The difference is notable. A recent report by the National Center on Education Statistics found that Pennsylvania has the widest funding gap between wealthy and poor school districts of any state in the country. Per-pupil spending in Pennsylvania’s poorest districts is 33% less than in its
wealthiest districts.

#FairFundingPA

The Campaign for Fair Education Funding is proposing a change in the way that funding is distributed so that the funds are distributed more fairly and every student has access to the resources they deserve.  The campaign is made up of more than 50 organizations across the commonwealth, including education advocates, teachers, school administrators, business leaders and church groups. The goal is ensure that Pennsylvania adopts and maintains an adequate and equitable system of funding public education by 2016.  That means every public school must have the resources necessary to enable every child to meet state academic standards, be prepared for post-secondary success, and become productive, knowledgeable, and engaged adults—no matter where the student lives.

You can read more about the Campaign for Fair Education Funding here. 

But don’t take my word for it. Listen to my 6-year-old daughter, Abby, tell you about her school in her own words. Hear how she responds to the question, “How would you feel if your school didn’t have all of the things you needed?” Even a kindergartener knows that isn’t fair and it is disappointing.

 

 

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In the Voice of a High Performing Kindergartener: AudioBy Abby, 6

 

 

 

 

 

Hear Me Website

We are fortunate that the only thing that Abby feels her school is missing is a slide. There are other students in our own state who are not so lucky. We are participating in this campaign for them. 

You can get involved and speak out for students across the state! Visit the Campaign for Fair Education Funding’s website to sign up for the e-newsletter for critical updates during the upcoming budget season. You’ll also find out how to contact your local legislators to urge them to prioritize public school funding and how to rally at the state capitol in Harrisburg on June 23. Plus, your child can voice his opinion, like Abby, through on school funding through the Hear Me platform.

Let me know how you are making your voice heard in the conversation about public school funding in the comment box below.

 

This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of The Campaign for Fair Education Funding. All opinions are my own.

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How I finally figured out how to wear white pants

May 27, 2015 By: Stephanie6 Comments

The secret to wearing white pants without them being completely see-through is really very easy.

I am not kidding you when I say that I have had several pairs of white pants hanging in my closet for YEARS and I have never worn any of them. I told you a little bit about that when I started trying my capsule wardrobe. 

Every spring or summer I would buy another pair and think this was going to be the time I finally figured out how to make them work for me. This time of year I see my friends wearing them and looking adorable and I think, “Why can’t I pull that off?” 

Then I would go home and try them, but no matter what I did, I just could not make them look good on my body. Some friends recommended buying white jeans for the thicker fabric, but I have not yet been able to find them in my size without major gapage going on at the back. (The pants in the picture are from Ann Taylor and a size 14.) 

This is how I finally figured out how to wear white pants….

What I tried: 

Granny Panties 

When I wore white pants with white full coverage underwear you could see the underwear in all of its glory. So I tried beige/nude underwear, and those still gave panty lines. Results: Nope. 

Thongs 

Some friends said they wore their white pants with thongs, but  when I tried that you could see my cellulite. That wasn’t exactly the look that I was going for and I am also getting way too old and curmudgeonly to submit to being uncomfortable at the same time that I am worrying about a whale tale hanging out every time I need to bend over to help one of my kids tie their shoes. Results: Nope. 

Body Shapers

I tried wearing some of my more expensive brand-name body shapers under the white pants (the kind that look like half a pair of panty hose and end at the thigh), but not only were they really uncomfortable because I was being squeezed in a corset, but you could still see a panty line and you could tell where they ended on my thighs. Results: Yeah, nope.

Going Commando

Not happening. I have ridiculously sensitive skin. I cannot even handle most laundry detergents touching me without breaking out into hives. I actually do need that extra layer of cotton protection because, as you can probably imagine, especially sensitive areas are, well, especially sensitive. Besides that, we were headed to a graduation party being held at a church. There was no way I was going in there without undergarments. 

Panty Hose 

I cut the feet off a pair of panty hose and tried that too. Surprisingly, that gave some of the best results. The only problem was that they weren’t quite thick enough, so you could still see a bit of a panty line. And if I was going to be wearing all of that business under my pants anyway, then I wasn’t going to bother with a thong for all of the other reasons I just listed. 

The panty hose gave me the idea for the one thing that finally did work…

White footless leggings!

 I put a pair of thin white footless leggings like these on top of full coverage underwear.  

I no longer had a visible panty line or completely see-through pants. 

This is not a trick I would recommend in mid-August in 98% humidity at an outdoor cook-out, obviously. But right now it is May. The day I wore this outfit to a graduation party it was 70 degrees and mild.  

And I FINALLY wore white pants in public. 

Mission accomplished. 

 

 

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The easiest recipe for summer bbq’s and pot lucks: Lemon Sticks

May 26, 2015 By: Stephanie1 Comment

Lemon halves with peppermint sticks are a Baltimore tradition. What an easy thing to take to a summer pot luck! It is surprisingly refreshing. It tastes like you are drinking flavored lemonade through a candy straw.

Yesterday we opened our pool and had our first cookout of the season. My mom came up from Baltimore and brought lemon sticks with her. I love lemon sticks and I always forget that people who are not from Baltimore aren’t always familiar with them. 

Our friends who were visiting thought we were kidding when we told them to just drink through the peppermint like a straw. They really did think we were playing a joke on them and wouldn’t try it until they saw us do it first. But once they tried them they were hooked and said they were going to start taking them to cookouts, too. 

A lemon stick is just a half of a lemon with a porous peppermint stick in it. You have to use the soft, thick, porous kind of peppermint stick. Just drink through the peppermint like a straw and it tastes like you are drinking flavored lemonade. The juice from the lemon gets sweetened by the candy. 

It’s surprisingly refreshing and quite possibly the easiest recipe for summer of all time. 

Make sure, though, not to put the peppermint into the lemon until right before you serve them. The longer they sit out, the more the acid in the lemon eats through the peppermint sticks and the peppermint starts to dissolve after a while. 

They would also be a great addition to a lemonade stand this summer. 

Let me know if you try them!

 

UPDATE: For those of you who asked on Facebook where  you can get the kind of peppermint sticks that I am talking about, they do have them on Amazon. I’m adding a link here, although we usually just pick them up in the candy aisle of our regular grocery store. 

 

You may also like my Sweet Tea Vodka Marinated Pork Chops: 

grilled pork chops and pineapple

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My Latest Stitch Fix

May 21, 2015 By: Stephanie2 Comments

What Stitch Fix sent in my latest fix

 

Lately I have earned a few referral credits from Stitch Fix. They add up pretty quickly because each time a friend decides to place an order through your link, you earn $25 in credit. Recently five people have placed orders through referral links on my Facebook page. It had been a while since I had placed an order with them, but since I had earned $125 in Stitch Fix credit, summer is coming, and I just got rid of most of the clothes in my closet, I went ahead and scheduled a fix. My friend Meredith from Mom of the Year was here on Tuesday and we played dress-up in my office while she helped me decide which pieces to keep. 

If you are not familiar with Stitch Fix, they are an online company that allows you to work with a stylist. You fill out a detailed survey about your size and your personal taste, then they send you 5 random items through the mail. You have no idea what is going to be in your “fix” until you open the box. Then you decide if you want to keep anything or if you want to send the clothes back. It’s very easy to send them back because they provide a stamped mail bag with your order. You just put whatever you don’t want in the bag and stick it in your mailbox. There is a $20 styling fee for the service, but if you decide to keep any of the clothes that $20 gets applied as a credit towards your order. 

The first few times I tried it I had a hard time finding a groove with my stylist, but I have found the more detailed feedback you provide about what you liked or didn’t like and why the more likely you are to get items that you love in your next fix. I do really appreciate not having to drag all three of my kids into a dressing room with me to try on clothes!

Here’s what they sent in this fix: 

Asymmetrical Sweater 

asymmetrical sweater

I actually really liked this sweatshirt because of the fabric, but it was super awkward. It was SO comfy and soft. I was tempted to keep it because of that. But the sleeves were ridiculously long, and I don’t think it was actually supposed to close. All of the pictures on the style cards they sent showed it open. When I zipped it there was an insane amount of extra fabric bunched inside giving me an extra pouch on my tummy. No thank you. This one got returned. 

Striped Skirt

Stitch Fix skirt

 

When I opened the box, I thought this one was going to be one of my favorites. I really liked the pattern and the fabric and the fact that it was neutral and classic. But it just wasn’t very flattering on me, so this one wasn’t a keeper after all. 

Black Shirt

black shirt

Let me start by saying that I did not like this shirt at all when I pulled it out of the box. I never would have chosen this shirt for myself. It reminds me of a marching band uniform. BUT one of the things I really like about Stitch Fix is that they get you to try things that are outside of your comfort zone. Looking at the pictures now, I think this is actually one of the more flattering pieces on me. However, the sleeves were cut very strangely and all of the buttons sewn around the elbows made it very tight and difficult to actually move your arms. So this one went back too.

The Keepers…

The Blue Dress

Stitch Fix dress

Meredith helped me decide to keep this dress. I did really like the cut, the length, the thicker material, and the fact that it just pulls right over my head with no zippers or buttons to worry about. It’s dry clean only, which is not super convenient, but I’ll live. I also like that if I continue to lose a little more weight it should still fit for a while because of the way it’s cut.   

The Floral Shirt

floral shirt

This was another one that I would not have chosen for myself. I was actually surprised to find that I liked it. But it was comfortable and fun and I thought it would be a nice addition to my summer wardrobe if I decide to continue with the capsule method (which has been working pretty well so far). 

Because I had $125 in Stitch Fix credits, I didn’t spend any money out of pocket for the two pieces I kept and I actually still have some credits left over. 

Thanks for snapping my pictures for me and playing dress-up, Meredith! 

Have you ever tried Stitch Fix? How did it go? 

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To Baltimore With Love

April 29, 2015 By: Stephanie4 Comments

This week, from an hour north, we watched our hometown burn. We worried about my sister and my husband’s brother, who both live in Baltimore City, and obsessively read Facebook updates from other friends and family who still live in the area. 

Yesterday my mother, who lives in Baltimore County, asked me if I was going to write about it and I told her no. What could I say that would matter? I don’t live there any more. I’m a white lady who lives in the suburbs and stays home with my children. But this morning it struck me that my own passive silence was contributing to the problem. We cannot continue to sit and watch and hope that someone else will create change, especially not those of us who are armed with the most powerful weapon on Earth–the pen.  

So today I would like to tell you a story about one of the most terrifying moments of my life and one young man’s bravery in the midst of it. 

Just last year, until a medical issue caused me to have to resign, I was a middle school teacher in a city school about an hour outside of Baltimore, with a very similar population. One day as our principal was in the middle of giving the morning announcements over the loudspeaker, she interrupted her own reading of the day’s lunch menu to say sternly,

“Teachers, lockdown immediately. This is NOT a drill. Immediate lockdown. I repeat, this is NOT a drill.” 

We had done lockdown drills before, so my students knew what to do, but they were scared. I locked our classroom door and covered the windows and we all moved as far away from those windows as we could as we sheltered in place behind bookcases and under computer tables. We did not know why we were locking our doors. We didn’t know if there was a perpetrator in the building or waiting outside. We didn’t know if it was actually safer to stay where we were or to try to leave through the windows. I checked my school email and my text messages as often as I could, but no information was coming through. More and more time passed and, although I thought I was doing my best to be calm and comforting, the tension rose. Some of my students started to cry. Some of them started to pray. One young black man, I will never forget, the smallest boy in my class, looked into my eyes and whispered, “Don’t you worry, Mrs. Giese. We would never let him take you. You got kids. If he gets in here, I go first.”

Of course, I had no intention of letting that happen, and thankfully it never came to that. The person who was driving around our campus with a weapon sticking out of a car window actually left without incident. Later, that brave young man shared with me that he lost his older brother to gun violence and his brother’s children had lost their father. In that moment, when he honestly thought he might die, that young man had been thinking not of himself but of my children. The blonde haired, blue eyed children whose picture was on my desk. He was not about to let them lose their mother.

I do not pretend to understand the depths of the suffering that these children have lived through that has driven them to feel like they have no other options, because I have never experienced it myself. But I have held boys taller than I am as they mourned cousins lost to violence. I have started and run a cheerleading program for fifth grade girls with a $0 budget and learned that many, many more after school programs are needed so they have somewhere to go. Those girls were more grateful for the sweatshirts I picked up at the craft store and let them decorate with craft paint than I ever was for my personally tailored private school uniform. They just wanted to be seen and to be heard. 

I have had children look into my eyes and ask me why someone hates them because of the color of their skin and, based on the other person’s behavior, it is usually easy to see why they are asking that question. I do not have the answer. 

I’ve told them the same thing I would say to children who were being bullied, “Honey, I don’t know why, but sometimes people are scared of anything that is different than what they know. The only thing we can do is try to show people all the ways we are all the same and all the things that make you special.”   

I don’t know any more what is the right thing to say and what is just rhetoric to comfort children.

What I do know is that destruction is only ever destructive.

It is time to start being constructive instead.

I know many people think that the racial divide is a figment of someone’s imagination. 

I know I’m not racist. 

I also know I almost didn’t write this because I’m white. 

A touching piece about Baltimore

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What I Learned On the First Day of Trying a Capsule Wardrobe

April 28, 2015 By: Stephanie19 Comments

 

 

An honest review of the capsule wardrobe challenge from a woman who tried it in real life.What I learned from decluttering my closet with the capsule wardrobe system

Apparently I have been living under a rock and capsule wardrobes have been around for a while. I just heard about this phenomenon last week. Caroline from the blog Unfancy is credited with bringing this idea to the masses. Basically, the idea behind a capsule wardrobe is that you get rid of a bunch of unnecessary stuff and try to minimize your wardrobe so that you are left with around 37 pieces per season that mix and match and coordinate with each other. The number is arbitrary, you can pick whatever number works for you, but 37 is what most people go with. (That number does not include your pajamas, underwear, or workout clothes.) 

The more I read about this, the more fascinated I became and I knew I really needed to do it. I have been on a huge cleansing spree in other areas of our house this year as well. I really just want to start living with less. I’m very tired of feeling buried by stuff. When it comes to the clothes specifically, I feel like I am constantly drowning in laundry and I still never feel like I know what to wear or like I am truly put together. Capsule wardrobes seemed like exactly the reboot I needed. 

How I Started

I didn’t exactly follow the system outlined on Caroline’s blog. Mostly because I didn’t even know where I really wanted to start. The idea is supposed to be to keep what you love and wear only that stuff. Ok, fine, but what *I* really love is pajamas and bare feet and my husband’s old college t-shirt, so that’s not really going to work as my everyday attire. I wasn’t sure what actually looked good on me or what I really should keep. 

In light of that, the first thing I did was to search Google images for pictures of celebrities who have a similar body type to mine: a little curvy (and short if possible). I took notes about what those ladies were wearing to public events, what I thought looked good on them and what I didn’t think looked quite as flattering. Then I made a collage of some inspiration pictures. 

examples of short women with curvy figures

I noted that boat necks and jackets would probably be my friend. I’m going to need to invest in some more cute, structured jackets. In the meantime, I’m trying to mostly work with what I’ve got. 

Purging 

Here is the thing: I get emotionally attached to clothes. I don’t really know why this happens, but it does. I have a tendency to keep clothes around forever (and continue to wear them) because they remind me of someone or something. 

Case in point, I still actually wear this sweatshirt that Eddie gave me when we were dating. We started dating more than 15 years ago. It is his sweatshirt from middle school that no longer fit him, which he passed on to me when our hometown football team went to the Super Bowl the first time. We are now married and in our 30’s. I totally kept this sweatshirt in my “workout clothes” category as a cheat. What? I told you, I’m still using it. 

Baltimore Ravens sweatshirt 

I had a ton of clothes that were decades old and threadbare, like this sweatshirt from my high school cheerleading championship, that I was still wearing. I don’t necessarily recommend wearing clothes that are literally falling apart, but that thing was seriously comfy.  

Sweatshirt with holes in it

 According to the rules, you are supposed to take everything out of your closet as you purge, but I didn’t, mostly because I’m not really the type to follow the directions on the box. I’m fortunate to have a large walk-in closet, so I just moved things from one side to the other as I decided if I wanted to put them in the “keep” or “seasonal” pile, and I put trash bags on the floor between each section and filled them with clothes to donate as I made my decisions. 

I was actually really glad I did it that way because I changed my mind quite a few times throughout the process and I would trade an item in my keep pile for one of my seasonal or maybe items. It was also nice to have things right where they belonged and not have to clean up my entire wardrobe when I was finished. It saved me a lot of time. Interestingly, once something went into the donate bag I was never tempted to pulled it back out. Not even once. It felt good to see all the space I was creating for myself. I did manage to clear out two full trash bags full of clothes and one smaller bag full of shoes. 

clothes that left my closet during the capsule wardrobe challenge

What I Learned

1. Try on everything. At first I was looking at tags and figuring things would not fit any more based on their labels and the fact that they were old. What I learned is that I that I can fit this curvy 5’4″ body into a size 8 and a size 14, an extra small, and an XXL. 

2. It was like shopping. I found things I totally forgot I even had. And they were cute! I kept a Ralph Lauren denim pencil skirt I don’t even remember buying (or did someone give it to me?) as one of my capsule items.

3. Teenage me had surprisingly good taste. For a long time now I’ve tried to buy classic pieces and never really gone for a lot of crazy patterns or super trendy items. As a result, I had a few items that were from college or even high school that actually wound up being pieces I kept in my capsule. I even found myself wishing that I had kept specific items–like a camel colored drape sweater– that I used to own once upon a time but have since given away. They would have been great additions to my capsule. Color me surprised. 

4. You don’t have to wear your memories. I do have pictures of almost all of the special moments in my life and I am lucky enough to live with Eddie right now. I packed up three of my favorite ratty old shirts that were too full of holes to donate and I’m saving  them in a keepsake box because I couldn’t let go of them yet. Everything else went. 

5. I am not very adventurous. My closet was chocked full of stuff from more than 15 years of buying clothes and receiving hand-me-downs from friends and relatives. For example, when my mother-in-law retired she passed her entire professional wardrobe on to me, so I owned a lot of clothes. Somehow I owned 5 pairs of white pants. I have yet to actually wear any of these white pants in public. I did keep one pair because I swear I am going to try it one of these days. 

6. The labels do not matter. I am writing the brands and sizes in this post so that you can see what I chose to keep because I know people will be interested, because I believe in full disclosure, and because I think it’s interesting to see how the sizes vary a lot by brand. I kept things that I bought full price at department stores, things I bought at T.J. Maxx and Target, and a J.Crew sweater I bought new with tags at a local consignment shop for a fraction of its retail price. I also kept things I got for free as hand-me downs. It doesn’t matter what the tag says or where it came from, just keep what looks good on you and what you feel good wearing. 

7. It is hard to prepare for the weather in our area. Just last week it was 80 degrees, then followed the by a frost warning the very next day. I tried to have a lot of options for layers in my capsule. I figured that since loungewear doesn’t count as part of the capsule, I have plain white t-shirts and a few tank tops in my dresser that I can wear under some of these sweaters and jackets as well to give me even more options.   

8. If I’m going to really commit to this then I might need to take the time to do my hair and makeup more often. (More often than never.) That was another thing that all of ladies in my inspiration pictures had in common. I don’t need to be wearing fancy clothes, it does make me feel and look better when I’m just wearing a t-shirt and jeans if I took time to curl my hair or throw on some jewelry. Plus, I actually do enjoy that stuff. It’s one of the fun things about being a girl. 

curly hair example picture during capsule wardrobe challenge

 

Ok…the moment of truth…what I kept…

Inventory: My 37 Pieces for Spring

Bottoms

  • Gray Capri Pants–New York and Company, size small
  • Jeans–Old Navy Sweetheart style, size 12
  • Skinny Jeans–The Limited, size 8
  • Black Dress Pants–Maurice’s, size 9/10 short
  • Khakis–Anne Taylor, size 14 petite
  • White Pants–Anne Taylor, size 14 petite
  • Jeans (tapered at ankle)– Ralph Lauren Sport, size 32  

Skirts

  • Denim Pencil Skirt– Ralph Lauren, size 8
  • Black Pencil Skirt– New York and Company, size small

Dresses: 

  • Purple Wrap Dress– New York and Company, size large
  • Gray Shift Dress– Calvin Klein, size medium
  • Printed Wrap Dress– Old Navy, size medium

Tops:

  • White Sleeveless Button-Up–Worthington, size large
  • Brown Sleeveless Button-Up–St. John’s Bay, size large
  • Gray Sweater–Croft & Barrow (Kohl’s), size medium
  • Flannel Shirt–Merona (Target), size XXL 
  • Gray Sweater– J.Crew, size small
  • Navy & White Striped Sweater– Croft & Barrow, size small
  • White Cardigan–41 Hawthorne, size large
  • Yellow & Gray Long Sleeve Tee–Calvin Klein, size large
  • Pink Tee– Croft & Barrow, size medium
  • Striped Tee–Croft & Barrow, size medium
  • Striped Anchor Shirt–Luna Chic, one size
  • Blue Short Sleeve Blouse– New York & Co, size large
  • Purple Sleeveless Blouse– 212 (Kohl’s), size petite XL
  • Dark Red Top w/ Flutter Sleeves–Topia, size large
  • Pink Sweater–Old Navy, size large

Jackets:

  •  Denim Jacket– Gap, size medium (this is one of the keepers from high school)
  •  White Fleece-Lined Sweatshirt Jacket–Sonoma, size large

Shoes: 

shoes for capsule wardrobe

 

(As far as I remember, those ankle boots are ten years old and from college.) I bought the black flats and the striped shoes this week at Target. I was a little worried that in doing this challenge I was going to find that I wanted to replace a lot of my clothes with more classic or modern pieces and it would get expensive, but I didn’t need to. Everything else was already in my closet.  

In the end, it only took me about two hours, I feel much lighter and better organized, and my collection of things for spring looks like this: 

Spring capsule wardrobe

 

I did not get rid of everything else in my closet because I am keeping my seasonal items, like heavier sweaters, snow pants and summer dresses, in there as well. However, I did separate them from the items in this season’s capsule. (The rest of the clothes I kept are located just to the left of this picture. Why would I bother packing and unpacking my seasonal stuff 4 times a year if I don’t have to?) 

Abby took a picture of me on my first day in a capsule outfit. This is the kind of quality photography you get when your six-year-old is taking your photo with a cell phone. 

pink sweater and jeans

 

Wow, did you make it all the way to the end of this post? That was a lot. Tell me what you are thinking about capsule wardrobes. Do you think you might try it or are they definitely not for you? 

I’d love to have you join the discussion on my Facebook page or follow along on Pinterest, where I’ve been pinning inspiration for my capsule this week. 

 

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Books To Help Young Kids With Grief

April 16, 2015 By: Stephanie5 Comments

After I wrote The Cookie Jar Parable, I started getting requests from schools and counselors and families for copies of the book. Grief is a topic that we don’t associate with children very often, but it comes up more than we think. My own kids have already been through the loss of two great-grandparents. Books are one way that we can help them understand and process the new feelings that are associated with their loss. Here are a few recommendations for books that can help during such a difficult time. 

Five books that can help young kids process grief, such as the death of a grandparent.

Books to Help Young Kids With Grief

(Hover over each book cover image for an affiliate link to its Amazon page for more information.)

Samantha Jane’s Missing Smile is a book often recommended for children who have lost a parent. 


I Miss You: This book discusses death in secular (non-religious) terms that very young children can understand, and helps to show children that their feelings are valid and natural. 

The Cookie Jar Parable is the book that I authored. If you are looking for a children’s book with a faith-based philosophy to help a child process grief, this might be a good selection for you. 


Another book about the loss of a grandparent, but this time told through the lens of animals, Goob and His Grandpa is part if the 7 Habits of Happy Kids series. 

If you have a child who has recently had to say goodbye to a pet, check out Saying Goodbye to Lulu. 

If you have any other suggestions, please leave them in the comments below. 

This post contains Amazon affiliate links for your convenience.

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Book Cover Parodies for a Good Cause

April 13, 2015 By: Stephanie7 Comments

Penny and I have been working on a special project. (Don’t let her grumpy face fool you, she had an awesome time playing dress up, she kept asking to do more!) I was inspired by Mayhem and the way she works with her mom to recreate dresses from special events like the Oscars. I might not be as talented as Mayhem’s mom when it comes to paper dresses, but I had an idea for a photography project of our own.

I wanted to bring in my teaching background and recreate iconic book covers with my kids. We chose well-known books with covers that were easy to recreate using things around our house. At the end of this post I am linking to programs that promote childhood literacy. Several of those programs even provide free books for schools or parents. My hope is that as this post is read and shared on social media, it will bring more awareness to these programs and others like them.

Mom and daughter parody book covers to raise awareness for children's literature

book cover spoofs draw attention to childhood literacy

Mom spoofs book covers to raise awareness for literacy programs

Mom and daughter spoof book covers to bring awareness to childhood literacy

Mother spoofs book covers to bring awareness to literacy programs

UPDATE: Nick and Abby wanted to get in on the action, so we made a few more. 

Kids Parody classic book covers

mom parodies children's literature covers

I’m also hoping that parents, teachers, and kids like YOU will want to get involved by recreating book covers of your own favorite books. If you want to participate, you can share your book cover recreation photos on my Binkies and Briefcases Facebook page, or on Twitter or Instagram using the hashtag #bookcoverkids. (Teachers, please make sure to obtain parental consent before posting pictures of students.) I can’t wait to see what you create!

List of Resources:

Dolly’s Parton’s Imagination Library 

Try the free version of the Reading Rainbow App

Pizza Hut’s BOOK IT! Program

Scholastic Reading Club 

First Book 

Reading Is Fundamental 

Read to Grow 

JetBlue’s Book Vending Machines

This is by no means a complete and comprehensive list. I’d love to add to it. Feel free to share information about other literacy programs in the comments section below. 

Don’t forget to follow along on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram to see the creative book cover recreations from other readers! 

 

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Five Fun Ways to Dye Easter Eggs

April 1, 2015 By: Stephanie1 Comment

If you are looking for some new and creative ways to add a little color to your decorations this year, check out some of these fun ways to dye Easter eggs!

fun ways to color Easter eggs

 The craft queen herself, Martha Stewart, uses lace to create super easy and beautiful designs. 

A Thrifty Mom shows you how to use shaving cream to create a marbled effect. (Tip: you can use this same technique on paper to make gorgeous handmade cards!)

Our Best Bites has a great tutorial for using silk ties to make beautiful patterns on your eggs. 

 Totally The Bomb likes to use Kool Aid. 

 Better Homes and Gardens has a whole list of all-natural dyes in just about every color. 

In our family we usually stick with the simple, tried-and-true food coloring and vinegar method. 

What is your favorite method for dyeing your eggs? 

Photo from Deposit Photo. 

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Resurrection Eggs

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Father Daughter Dance

March 30, 2015 By: Stephanie1 Comment

Last month Eddie and Abby got to go to the Father/Daughter dance at Abby’s school. We snapped these pictures just before they left. They had a great time!

Daddy daughter dance

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Stephanie Giese is an indie author based in Florida. She writes stories about realistic problems with humor, heart, and sass. Her work has a strong focus on mental health and consent. Her North Bay small-town romance series is set for release in 2025.

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I know it’s a small thing, but I believe small things can add up to big changes. my entire North Bay series, including Out of Left Field, Right as Rain, and Way Off Base, is free on Kindle from Jan. 30-Feb. 3. Please take the funds you might have spent on my books this week and reallocate them toward the areas in our country that need them the most. Follow creators like Dad Chats who can direct you toward practical needs local to them. I hope my quirky romcoms can bring you some comfort and joy during difficult times, and I hope together we can take small, practical steps toward big changes. ... See MoreSee Less

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I know there is an overall feeling of helplessness in our country right now. So many of us are at a loss for what to do beyond making phone calls and social media posts (which are still important, but can feel like not enough). I believe strongly in the power of small things adding up to big ones. As one person, I might not be able to do much, but what I CAN do is use my voice and my books to work toward the change I’d like to see. That’s why, for the next five days, from Jan. 30-Feb 3, I’m making the Kindle versions of my entire North Bay series (Out of Left Field, Right as Rain, and Way Off Base) completely free. Art has power, and I do hope these comedies can bring you some comfort and joy in difficult times, but most importantly, I also hope you’ll consider redirecting the funds you might’ve spent on my books and donating instead to one of the many charities working tirelessly in our cities right now. If you are located in an area like Minnesota or Portland, please use the space below to make people aware of the organizations in your area that need help. ... See MoreSee Less
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