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Mom (self) Shaming

October 5, 2012 By: Stephanie1 Comment

You might have heard of dog shaming or the recently controversial baby shaming (and in case you haven’t, it’s when you take a picture of someone holding a sign that says something potentially embarrassing), but the 35 Most Pinteresting Moms are starting a new trend: Mom (self) Shaming.

Check out our Pinterest board and the Blogging While Mom Facebook page for some serious true confessions.  You will be laughing out loud, for real, and probably able to relate. 

P.S.
 Because I know you are thinking about it now, I did shave my legs last night.

  

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Book Review: 75 Ways to Have More Fun at Home

October 4, 2012 By: Stephanie1 Comment

I’m so excited for the opportunity to share an awesome new book with you today!

Anna from My Life and Kids has released a brand new ebook filled with easy and inexpensive ways to have more fun with your kids at home.

I had the opportunity to preview an early release of the book last week and I can honestly tell you that it is awesome! It’s a very quick read and the best part is that you don’t have to be a Pinterest-perfect mommy to try any of them. They are very easy and most of them are free. Some might require everyday household objects, like a drinking straw. (Just wait until you see what Anna can teach you how to do with a straw! My 5-year-old’s life will never be the same.)

I loved that these ideas were great for both girls and boys and that it didn’t require any special planning on my part to inclue most of them in my day.

I think my favorite was the pajama bike parade. I can totally see us all riding down the street in PJ’s.

I also love the idea of celebrating our minivan’s birthday. I’ll be breaking out some streamers and balloons next June. 

The best part is that the book is less than 5 bucks. Actually, it’s less than 4 bucks AND you don’t even have to own a Kindle or any other eReader.

Of course, you can buy the Kindle version if you want through Amazon here. 

OR

You can download the pdf and print a hard copy for instant hands-on gratification here 

Check out the reviews on Amazon before you buy. They speak for themselves.

It really is a great resource to have on hand, especially now that the winter months are closing in on us and we will be stuck inside floundering for ways to keep those little hands busy.

   

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DIY {No Sew} Mary Poppins Costumes for the Whole Family

October 2, 2012 By: Stephanie3 Comments

Mary Poppins Costumes for the Whole Family 

We are a family that does celebrate Halloween, but I’m not into encouraging my kids dress up like spawns of Satan just for some free candy.

We go for the more gentle, family-friendly costumes around here. In the past we have done a bumble bee, a lady bug, a monkey, a mermaid, a dinosaur, Nemo (the fish), and Dopey (of the Sven Dwarfs).

This year I wanted to do a common theme for all my kiddos and I came across a lot of really cute ideas on Pinterest.  By far my favorite for a group of three was this adorable idea for Mary Poppins costumes from Make It and Love It. (Those are home-sewn and she has tutorials for all of them!)
I had plans to use her tutorials to sew the kids’ costumes myself, but since we are in the middle of moving right now, all of my sewing stuff is packed away in storage.

I decided to go the traditional Mary Poppins route with the coat, hat, and umbrella instead. I love that this will keep my daughter nice and warm. Last year it was snowing here in PA on Halloween and she had to wear a turtleneck, hat, and gloves with her mermaid costume, which was not quite the look we were going for.

Mary Poppins {no sew}

  
Abby’s was the most complicated to piece together, but was still super easy once I found a hat that could work. The coat is a hand-me-down from an older cousin, but I bet you could find a nice dress coat at a thrift store or kid’s consignment store this time of year too.

The hat was originally a foam cowboy hat from the dollar store. I cut off the brim, turned the hat sideways, and added ribbon and a flower. (I used a glue stick to add the ribbon and just poked the flower through since the hat is made of foam)  Everything that I used for the hat came from the Dollar Tree. I bought the kid-sized umbrella there as well.

The bow/scarf is a fabric gift wrap bow that was on clearance at Target and the wig came from their Halloween section.

If I had my craft stuff available, I might also crochet her a scarf, but we’re calling this good enough for now.

 

Bert {no sew}

 

Nicholas will be trick or treating as Bert, the chimney sweep. He still needs a suit jacket (or I might just tuck in the hood of a dark sweatshirt jacket he already has). His shirt is from the dollar store and he already had those pants. The hat and broom are from Target. I also bought $1 black Halloween makeup at Target to dirty him up for the occasion. 

Penguin{no sew}

I know it’s from an entirely different part of the movie and might not make as much sense as a group now, but I still liked the idea of having the baby be a penguin. Plus this might be the easiest DIY costume of all time. 

It’s just a hat from the kids section at Target, a white onesie, and 2 pairs of tights.

I didn’t even have to cut the tights or anything. The pair on her legs is her regular size and the pair on her arms is 2 sizes too big. I stretched them out and put them on her like a shrug. The way she is sitting in the picture makes it look like her arms are pulled back, but I promise she still has free range of motion and she seemed perfectly comfortable. I might cut off the elastic top of that pair before Halloween just to be sure, though.

My favorite part of this costume is that every single piece can go right into her regular wardrobe. I hate shelling out a ton of money for Halloween costumes every year. When you have several kids it’s really easy for the costume budget to go sky high really quickly.

If your family celebrates Halloween, what are your costumes ideas this year?

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It’s Gotcha Day!

October 1, 2012 By: Stephanie3 Comments

Four years ago, on October 1, 2008, we stood in a Florida courtroom and made it official. Nicholas has a forever family! 

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Letters From Mommy

September 29, 2012 By: Stephanie3 Comments

Do your kids ever say something outrageous or off the wall that you think you’ll never forget, but by the time you want to tell your husband or your mom about it later that night you already forgot?

I do that all the time!

That’s why earlier this year I started keeping a book of letters for each of my kids and I’m already so glad that I did.

I can already look back and see some funny moments I would have otherwise forgotten.

I want each of my kids to have memories recorded in my handwriting.

When they are old enough, I hope I continue this tradition and they can write letters in their notebooks as well.

 

It only cost about $1 to start this tradition for each child, but I know they will treasure these memories forever. I think they will like each having their own book of letters from mom. I made sure to buy the books in a “signature color” for each kid, so I wouldn’t mix them up and write a letter in the wrong book. (I can totally see myself doing that!)

Although I take about a million photos every week, I’m not a scrapbooker anymore. I’m glad to have a place to record our memories.

I think it’s so important when you have several kids to recognize each of them individually.  Do you have anything special that you do for each child?

 

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Oh! I also have some exciting news. Have you noticed the new button on my sidebar? I’ve been selected as one of the Top 35 Most Pinteresting Moms! I was super excited when I was asked to join. I’m not sure how I managed to land a gig among such talented ladies. They are hilarious and they have a lot of fun ideas. Make sure to check out our group Pinterest board!

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Our Second Date: or How My Family Liked To Humiliate My Teenage Self

September 28, 2012 By: Stephanie2 Comments

I’m pretty sure one of the main reasons Eddie married me is because my tendency to humiliate myself in public would make him seem so suave in comparison.

I mean, when you are standing next to someone who shows up at a wedding in the same dress as the bridesmaids, finds herself naked in front of a priest, or does, well, this, it would be hard not to look like the one who has it all together right?

Humiliating second date

Our second date should have given him a clue.  Bras were removed, public urination happened, and something very inappropriate happened at a restaurant table, but it was all very PG and probably not at all what you’re thinking. It was also super embarrassing for yours truly. 

We were high school sweethearts, so we started “dating” before either of us could drive. That meant our dates were mostly either being dropped off at the mall or the movies or hanging out at each other’s houses.

One of those early “dates” was when Eddie was allowed to tag along to an out-of-town soccer tournament for my 11-year-old sister.

We drove about two hours and when we got there my sister discovered she had worn the wrong uniform. Oops. The one she was supposed to wear had those weird extra-long armholes that show your bra. Luckily she had the right shirt with her in her bag.

Except my sister hadn’t worn a bra, and 11-year-olds are too old to go flashing themselves to an entire park of middle-aged men standing around at a soccer tournament.

My parents made me take off my bra and give it to her.

The humanity.

It’s super awkward to be forced to take off your underwear through your clothes and hand it over to a relative, but I knew that 15-year-old Eddie probably thought it was kind of hot to know I was no longer wearing a bra, so I could have played that off.

But that’s not the only thing that happened. Oh no.

On the ride home (on which I still didn’t have my bra back because my sister had gotten it all sweaty and gross so I told her to just keep it, hoping my sacrifice would warrant a trip to 5.7.9 for some new clothes) my little brother, who was 4 at the time, announced that he needed to go potty. But we were on a fairly busy road in No-wheres-ville, PA.

Oh, no problem. We don’t want him to go outside because the road is too busy, but Steph has this lemonade she was drinking…

So my parents made me help my brother pee in my lemonade bottle in the minivan in front of my new boyfriend.  

Seriously, they are all lucky I still speak to them.

Eddie was finding all of this hilarious, by the way.

When we got back to our hometown we stopped at a seafood restaurant for dinner. I believe this was the first time Eddie and I had gone out to eat together and I know it was the first time he had gone out in public with my family.

My sister got something stuck in her braces. Or maybe she broke her braces, I really can’t remember.

All I remember is that my parents made me use the toenail clippers I had in my purse and fix my sister’s braces in the middle of the restaurant. (I have no idea why I had toenail clippers in my purse, flip flop season?)

Up until that point, I thought it was the most humiliating day of my life. Lucky for me Eddie loved the fact that my family is never boring and he decided to stick around.

And eventually we learned to drive and we got far, far away. 🙂 

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House Tour

September 27, 2012 By: Stephanie2 Comments

It’s official. Our house is on the market. (And if you want to buy it please email me and I will put you in touch with our realtor straight away!)

It’s a little bittersweet. We always knew that this wasn’t our forever house. It’s been a great house, but it was VERY dated when we bought it and we always wanted to own several acres of land. This house has a nice lot, about 1/3 of an acre, but we still wanted more space. Having a master bathroom wouldn’t hurt either.

This house has been good to us, though. This is where we brought both of the girls home from the hospital. It’s where we’ve had birthday parties and Gotcha Days and it’s where I became a stay at home mom. It’s also only a block or so away from a park, and in a good school district. Funny enough, one of the main reasons I fell in love with this house was because there are sidewalks on both sides of the street (surprisingly hard to find around here) and a big driveway. I really do appreciate being able to let the kids ride their bikes or push the stroller around the block and not have to worry about their safety. I remember that I kept saying to the realtor, “We can fix ugly, but sidewalks are a must. And no double yellow lines on the road.”  Also, the windows, roof, furnace, and hot water heater have all been replaced within the last 8 years.   

Even though it was dated when we bought it, we’ve been able to update quite a bit over the last 3 (almost 4!) years. Hopefully another family will like the back yard, large room sizes, and great closet and storage space as much as we have.

It’s a split-foyer house, so when you walk in the front door, you see these stairs. 

If you go up the stairs you come right into the living room.

Since we’ve lived here, in this room we exposed the hardwood floors, painted, added crown molding, replaced the trim around the windows, installed new doors & shelves in the coat closet, put a new light fixture in the entry, and Eddie & his dad replaced an old metal railing with these built-in shelves.  (We also exposed the wood steps, and replaced the floor in the foyer.)

 

On the other side of the wall where  our couch sits is our kitchen, which is finally FINISHED! (It only took 3 years) Literally everything in this room except the ceiling has been replaced. We replaced the cabinets, counters, appliances (all of which will be staying with the house), moldings, back splash, lighting, pantry door, paint, floor, and brought the electrical stuff up to code. 

The kitchen stretches into the dining room, making one large space.

In this room we redid the floor, added the molding, and painted. 
 
 
The sliding glass door in the dining room is how you access the back yard. There’s a small concrete patio at the bottom of a small stair case and then…

Our back yard has been by far one of our favorite parts of living in this house.

There is a hallway off of the dining room that leads to our main bathroom and 3 bedrooms.

This next picture is a blog exclusive. You won’t be seeing this in the mls listing. It’s my least favorite room in the entire house, but it has served us well.

We haven’t really done anything to update this room and sadly, it shows. The floor is not dirty, it’s just over 40 years old and worn out.  You can’t really tell from the picture, but it’s actually a pretty decent sized bathroom considering the age of the house. Hopefully the next owners will be able to update it because it has a lot of potential. We need to de-clutter this room now that we’re selling, but it’s hard when 5 people share 1 full bathroom and some of them are still potty training!


 

Nick’s room is across the hall from the bathroom. If it takes a while to sell the house, we will repaint it a more neutral color, but for now we figured the kids had enough change to deal with and we left their rooms alone.


 


There are two more bedrooms at the end of the hallway. The girls’ room is on the left. 

The master bedroom is on the right. The only thing that designates it the master is that the closet is bigger. It’s not a walk-in, but is does extend almost the entire length of the wall, so we were pleasantly surprised to discover that it actually holds more than the smallish walk-in we had in our last house.

The only updates we’ve made in the bedrooms are paint, light fixtures, and a closet system in the girl’s room.  (Also, note to self: You have horrible taste when you are pregnant. Stop buying ugly grandma curtains and bright yellow paint.)  

If you go downstairs, there is a door directly at the bottom of the steps that leads to a very large unfinished storage room. (The same size as our kitchen & dining room area) That’s where our laundry, furnace, and water heater are.

If you stop at the bottom of the stairs and turn left, you’ll find our family room. We’ve been using this as our homeschool room since Nick started kindergarten.

We’ve tried to update this space a little by painting the paneling and replacing the baseboard. The brown shag carpet wouldn’t have been my first choice (or 2nd, or 3rd…) but it is in really good condition and comfortable for the kids to play on, so we kept it.

There is also a large storage closet and crawl space off of this room.

If you turn right at the bottom of the steps, there is a small foyer and powder room. There is also access to the garage in this area.

The powder room is another area where we replaced everything except the ceiling. 


That pretty much wraps up the tour. Want to see some before pictures? 


 Uh, yeah. I don’t know why we bought it either looking like that, but we did. Hopefully there will be a new family coming along soon who will be blessed by all of the hardwork, sweat and tears that went into this house.

Wish us luck!  






 

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10 Reasons Cyber School Doesn’t Completely Suck

September 19, 2012 By: Stephanie1 Comment

I’m not gonna lie, the first two weeks into our cyber school transition were rough. I was ready to quit a few times. However, we are pushing towards the end of our first month and we are starting to see some more benefits now, so I thought I would share.  In no particular order…

1. I don’t have to do a lot of lesson planning.

Of course I look over the lessons before I teach them, but the curriculum is provided for us and the lessons have already been planned. I just need to gather the materials and go. We have gotten to a point where the prep only takes me about 10 minutes in the morning. That time might increase if I had several students or older kids, but for now it’s not taking much extra time out of my day.

2. Sickness doesn’t slow us down.

Last week Nicholas came down with a slight ear infection. It wasn’t a big deal, he just kept complaining that his ear was “fathering” (bothering) him. I was able to call the doctor and get into their next appointment time in less than an hour. He didn’t have to miss any school. He felt well enough to do the rest of his work and it was much less of a hassle than signing him out of a classroom for a doctor’s visit would have been.

3. We get to have cool stuff to ourselves.

We’ve been going to the playground a few blocks from our house 3 or 4 times a week and every time we’ve been up there so far, we have had the whole park to ourselves. It’s our own personal playground basketball court and baseball field. I’m all for social interaction (and we are getting plenty, no worries) but unsupervised older kids at the park over the summer are kind of a pet peeve of mine.

4. The school has given us more flexibility. 

We have been given permission for “asynchronous instruction,” meaning we are excused from the live learning sessions and can  now work at our own pace, although we are welcome to sign-in to the live sessions with the teachers as we want. Also, the computer is starting to keep track of Nick’s strengths and weaknesses and change the lessons accordingly. There have also been a few optional lessons starting to pop up here and there, which really eases the load when I feel like he already knows a subject well enough and we can skip those. 

5. It holds me accountable 

This is not meant in any way to bash traditional homeschooling, but If I’m being honest, I know that if I had gone the traditional homeschooling route and planned my own kindergarten curriculum this year, it would not have been nearly as intense. Speaking just for myself, I probably would have done a letter of the week, a few activities to go with each letter, some calendar math, and a simple addition & subtraction along with some craft projects. I would probably have an “oh well, no big deal” attitude if he decided not to work particularly hard one day and our work didn’t get done. I would probably skip days that we had other activities planned. Sometimes I resent the “big brother” aspect of it, but having to sign in to the online school every day and complete a minimum of our math and language arts activities really does keep me accountable and make sure there is plenty of actual school work getting done. 

6. It’s affordable

Yes, we have gotten some unexpected backlash from traditional home schoolers about this aspect of cyber school. Our taxes (and yes, theirs too) pay for a TON of books, computer software, CD’s, DVD’s, instruments, maps, globes, and other manipulatives as well as a desktop computer and a printer to be delivered to my door. It’s included in our school taxes so we don’t have to pay extra, but my son gets his very own materials that don’t need to divided among an entire group of kids, as they would in public school.  We have them right here in our house so we can skip ahead, watch a video again, repeat a song on a CD, or do another workbook page if we are on a roll. We have our textbooks to refer back to anytime we want. 

7. We make our own schedule

We still get to participate in activities like our Mom N Me program and the Community Bible Study (CBS) we just joined this year. Some days we are totally finished all of his work by 9am, today we got everything done while Abby was at preschool after we came back from CBS. We usually don’t have homework, so when daddy comes home that time is reserved for family time. (Although once a week or so I have left an easy and fun activity for Nick & Eddie to do together because Eddie wants to be involved too.)

Yesterday it rained all day and we stayed in PJs and alternated between school work and Disney movies for the whole day. 

It also helps to take a break for snacks or physical activity whenever he needs one. I could see his behavior escalating out of control very quickly in a general education classroom without frequent (and I mean VERY frequent, as in less than 10 minutes apart) breaks.       

Not to mention, we plan to move twice within this school year, so it allows for stability because he won’t be bouncing around different schools all year. 

8. The special services are included and convenient

There have been several years when we have paid out of pocket for various therapies. Nicholas still needs occupational therapy, but instead of me having to drive him to an office and take money out of our health savings account, my son has and IEP the right as a “public school student” (because cyber schools are considered public charter schools) to have a therapist work with him right here in our house and it’s already covered by our school tax. He also has a certified special education teacher who calls me throughout the week to check in and see if I need any help. I have no special ed experience outside of working with gifted kids, so I appreciate her insight. Also, I can always blame stuff he doesn’t like on the teacher. “I know History isn’t your favorite, but your teacher said it’s very important that we get this done today.” 😉

9. It allows me to gain insight into the way he learns 

I like seeing my son interact with other teachers and therapists because I’m smart enough to know that I don’t know everything and someone else might have a better way to reach him. I like having a professional community for bouncing ideas around and seeking advice. I also like all of the computer games and songs that are part of the online curriculum, they really seem to strike a chord with Nick.

Plus, he doesn’t have to sit completely still like he would in a general classroom. Today he was playing with Lego’s and seeming not to pay a lick of attention while I was reading him our art text.
“Henri Matisse used bright colors and people weren’t used to seeing that in art work…Are you listening?..They called him a ‘wild beast’ because of his crazy painting style…Can you put down the Lego airplane? Come stand near Mommy, you have to look at this painting…He used lots of different kinds of lines….You can’t hear me read when you are making that noise…” and so on. But guess what? When we got to the assessment questions at the end of the lesson, he got them all right. And when he had to draw a portrait inspired by Matisse’s, he did that well too. He was concentrating really hard and kept putting his foot up on his desk to see how he should try to draw toenails on the person he was sketching. (See #5, because ain’t no way I would have been doing a lesson about Henri Matisse if I had planned my own kindergarten curriculum)  It got in that little noggin somehow, go figure.

He is far exceeding my expectations in Phonics, Music, and lately in Art. He’s doing well in math too, but like I’ve said before, I do think this math curriculum is way too easy. 

10. I get extra time to be nosy and controlling

I’m already hearing scary tales about bullying and exposure to inappropriate language and adult subjects from other friends who have kids in school. I realize that I can’t keep that stuff away from my kids, but I like being there to explain that we don’t use that word, or no, that’s not what that means. I like knowing where they are and who they are interacting with and what they are watching and listening to. I like knowing what Nick is learning and seeing where there might be gaps I need to fill. I’m not ready to hand over that responsibility to someone else, and I don’t have to. 🙂       
  
  

Linking to Serenity Now.

 

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Mommy & Me Tea Party

September 18, 2012 By: Stephanie2 Comments


Last year 5 moms from our Mom N Me group at church all had little girls within 6 months of each other. Over the weekend the first of those babies turned one! 

Her mommy, Nicole, decided to have a special tea party just for the moms & babies. All of these little girls have older siblings, so even with 5 babies, it was a quiet and relaxed afternoon in comparison to our normal lives. 🙂

We let the girls crawl around, ate fancy finger foods, opened gifts, and chatted, stopping every once in a while to change a diaper or nurse a baby.

 
 

The menu was very reminiscent of our fancy tea at the Ritz Carlton. 

-Finger sandwiches: roast beef with horseradish, cucumber and strawberry, and ham and cheese roll-ups
-Fruit salad
-Pumpkin scones (from the recipe here)
-Homemade cookies
-Raspberry lemonade
-Assorted teas
-Baby food

 

Mom’s place setting

Baby’s place setting

 
 
 

 

 
 

I really like how Nicole kept the decorations simple to focus on the birthday girl and the reason we were celebrating, rather than having a lot of character decorations or Pinterest-y favors.

 

As far as presents, because the birthday girl and her family will be leaving in just a few months to go on a mission trip that might last several years, no one went overboard with big, fancy toys or extravagant “stuff.” She received a DVD for the long plane ride, a new bathing suit and tea party book, and Nicole and I had talked ahead of time about having a family photo shoot for them before they leave.   


In addition to some much-appreciated baby food we got to take home as favors, we also each received a binder with a picture of the birthday girl in it and several page protectors. We will be keeping in touch through email and letters and the binder will be a book to keep all of those communications and pictures throughout the years that Birthday Girl is away. We want her to have a connection to the girls in her age range whenever she returns. 
We tried having the girls pose for pictures for their books.

 


This is what Penny thought of that idea.

 


 Shortly after her mini-meltown, it was time to head home. 🙂




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Diary of a Reluctant Homeschooler: Week 1

September 7, 2012 By: Stephanie2 Comments

Our first week of cyber school is over & I feel a little better.

I’ve learned a lot.

Week 1 Review of Kindergarten Homeschooling

For one thing, if you call it cyber school instead of homeschool, traditional homeschoolers are much less likely to get mad at you. Who knew there was a whole other mommy war battle going on between those who chose to educate their kids at home via online charter schools and those who do it without those resources? I’ve gotten quite a few rude comments via Facebook & email about how other people’s tax money is paying for my kid’s education. Really? We’re not accepting Welfare over here, we pay school taxes too. My personal stance on the issue is that if we are already paying for it, we might as well use it. Why wouldn’t I use a “free” (again, my taxes paid for it just as much as anyone else’s) award-winning, standards-based curriculum or computer?

Interestingly, the only negative feedback has come from traditional homeschoolers. I get it (sort of), they’ve fought hard to keep the government out of their kids’ education and they are cheesed that they have to pay for their own curriculum on top of the school taxes they have to pay. Sorry, guys. That’s your choice, just like paying for tuition at a private school would be. I’m sticking with what I know, which is public school and how to teach it.

We also have quite a few friends who traditionally homeschool who have been very supportive, so that’s helped soften the blows quite a bit. Many of our friends who have enrolled in public schools have expressed an interest in cyber schooling after they saw the curriculum we received.

Eddie and I have both been extremely impressed with Nicholas’ progress and performance this week. We’ve completed all of the math and language arts lessons and he has demonstrated mastery on every task. There is no way he would do that in a gen. ed. classroom. He even asked to do extra work last night when Eddie came home.

There is a lot of overlap in the subject areas, which is nice, I guess. They did identifying shapes and colors in math at the same time as color words in language arts, for example.

I like the language arts curriculum a lot, but in my opinion, math is too easy and the other subjects are WAY too hard.

Nicholas has a documented learning disability in math. He tested in the .04% range. He has only gotten one answer wrong this entire week. Either I’m the best teacher in the universe (which is entirely possible 😉 or it’s just too easy. That’s awesome for us, but if your child is on or above grade level, I can’t imagine using this math curriculum. However, I did see on the school’s Facebook page that some of the kindergarteners are starting with first-grade materials, so maybe that would be an option.

History is ridiculous. In the very first lesson we had to learn about the earth, then all of the continents, attributes of each continent,  as well as complete a paper that detailed famous structures that were located on the various continents like the Great Wall of China, the Great Barrier Reef, the Grand Canyon, etc. That was ONE lesson. In Kindergarten. Sheesh. Luckily, we only have to do history twice a week.

Also, history is different than social studies in this curriculum, so on that same day, we had a completely separate lesson about the Pledge of Allegiance.

Art was equally as intense. We were observing the features of an oil painting of Henry VI as a child, then comparing and contrasting it to a sculpture of a cowboy riding a horse. In order to do that, first, the lesson took us through the various aspects of a realistic portrait, then sculptures, then we had to learn about abstract art just for fun. Then there was a test. My poor kid had to take a test about Henry VI on the first day of kindergarten. Twice. He only got a 60% the first time, so he had to redo it. (The school policy is not to let you move on until you have an 80% or higher.) How dare he not know enough about English royalty by age 5. Clearly, I have been slacking on my motherly duties.

Apparently, the curriculum writers for art & history have never met an actual 5-year-old boy, or else they would realize that their audience has the attention span of a fly on crack and plan accordingly.

The last thing that I will complain about (I’m not sure why this feedback seems so negative because I’m actually liking it ok so far) is that I don’t appreciate that there is no “opt-out” option for tasks that are already mastered. We have to complete one online lesson to get to the next and I also have to complete a portfolio of completed paper assignments. For one of the lessons I gave him the final assessment first as a pretest and he got 100%. We should have been able to skip that lesson altogether, but we had to spend an hour “practicing.” Pre-tests, people. It would be awesome if there was a pretest at the beginning of each online lesson, it could track progress between the beginning and end of the lesson and also allow for a lot less time wasted completing unnecessary work. If the student demonstrates mastery of a task before you teach it, then you don’t waste time teaching it. Duh.

Even though I might sound a bit grumpy,  I really like a lot of the aspects of it so far. I have found that I’m much more patient than I thought I would be and that Nicholas is progressing faster and further in just this week than I would have expected to see in the entire first month. Phonics is his best subject. Who would have thought? The teachers have agreed to excuse us from the required live class sessions on certain days so that we can still participate in Community Bible Study and our Mom N Me program. Also, it is going pretty quickly. So far we have been able to complete most, if not all, of our work by lunch each day. We also got to go to a meet & greet last night with some more people from the school.

It was definitely the right choice for us.

*Update: Here are all of the posts I wrote about our homeschooling experience.

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler

How to Set up a Homeschool Nook

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, A is for A-ha moment!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Weird and Overwhelming

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, The Supplies Are Here!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Our First Day!

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