The holidays are a special time of year and lots of families want to remember those moments by taking pictures. Over the past few years, there have been so many improvements to technology and cameras that it is easier than ever to be your own photographer. But have you ever wondered why your pictures might not be turning out as well as the ones you see on blogs or from professional photographers (who sometimes are now even using a lower grade camera than their clients, but taking higher quality pictures)? [Read more…]
How To Stay
A few days ago I was really discouraged to read an article that was posted during National Adoption Month that talked about a dark side of the adoption process that most people don’t realize is as prevalent as it is. The article told the story of a family who “gave back” or “gave up” their adopted child. The correct term for this is dissolving an adoption, or disruption if it happens before the adoption is finalized, but I couldn’t find either mentioned anywhere. The behaviors described in the article were very typical of any child who has been through a trauma. My heart cracked in half and tears flowed out of my eyes as I read comment after comment commending the family for making the right decision to “give up” and saying that we shouldn’t judge unless we have walked in her shoes and that anyone would have done the same thing. My heart is torn today because I don’t want to judge other families, and maybe God really did have a better plan for this little boy, but this issue is so, so dear to me that I feel I have a responsibility to speak. Especially because it is November. [Read more…]
Ten MORE Things I’m Glad We Did While Building A New Home
Thank you all so much for making my post, Ten Things I’m Glad We Did While Building A New Home, one of the most popular posts on my blog! Since there seems to be such an interest in the home building process, and some of your comments have helped me remember things I forgot to include in the original post, I wanted to do another list of ten MORE things I am so glad we did while building our home.
- We widened almost all of the doorways, and we also have a separate shower with a seat in out master bathroom. We wanted our home to be wheelchair accessible to accommodate aging parents or in case we would ever need that feature ourselves in our home in the future. You just never know, and it is a pretty affordable upgrade to widen the doorways while you can.
- My husband asked our electrician to install outlets in the roof of our covered porch to make Christmas decorating easier. We no longer need to run extension cords down the side of our house in the winter. I never would have thought to do that, but I do think it’s pretty cool.
- We redesigned the dormers on the front of the house. The original plans for our home showed two small dormers on the front. I saw a picture of a similar house that had one larger gable, the way ours is now, and I stopped production completely and made everyone start over because I just knew that was the way our house was meant to look. It costs us a great deal of time and I think some plans had to be resubmitted for permits. I still think it was worth it. We look at our house several times every day and I would still be regretting it if I had not insisted we change those plans. I think the current look is more symmetrical and brings in the lines from the right side of the house.
- We switched home builders. Originally, we were going to put a modular home on our property and had gone so far as to have several meetings with that builder. Everything should have been in place, but the more we met with them, the less we liked them. We hadn’t signed anything binding yet, so we decided to meet with a private home builder from our church and have him give us an estimate as well, and we were very pleasantly surprised. Mike was great at being able to take the ideas I had in my head and translate them into a language my husband could understand and the cost difference between modular and stick-built was negligible in our case. He stayed on budget and by building a custom home we got to choose everything in our house. I really think finding a builder you are comfortable with is key to making the process a pleasant one. I know several people who say they would never go through the process of building their own home again. It is stressful, but we had a very pleasant experience. I would build another house with Mike in a heartbeat.
- We added a utility sink in the garage. For some reason, plumbing for a sink in the garage was not in the original plans for our house. But we use that sink all the time while we are doing yard work or if the kids need to wash up after playing outside. Make sure to check your plans very thoroughly so that things like that don’t get overlooked.
- We changed the layout of our kitchen. Originally, the kitchen island was supposed to be a raised breakfast bar on one side. But this island sits directly in between our dining room and an eating nook. I did not think I really needed three separate eating areas within ten feet of each other, but I knew what I did need was storage. So instead of making this area a raised breakfast bar, we made the entire island the same height to get more counter space, and we made the entire back side of the island drawers for additional storage.

- We put a double vanity in the kids’ bathroom. You don’t often see two sinks in a hallway bathroom, but we have three children who share that bathroom to brush their teeth every night and get ready for school every morning. I think it’s only going to get worse as they get older and the girls start wanting to do their hair and makeup. I’m really glad we have the double vanity in there for storage and the additional sink.
- We chose historic paint colors. Once everything is done and it is time to put the paint on the walls, it is easy to get overwhelmed because there are SO many choices and you don’t want to make a bad decision and have this brand new house you spent so much money on look terrible. Even though it is “just paint,” when you are talking about enough paint for an entire house, it does get expensive to make mistakes. We chose all of our paint colors from the National Trust for Historic Preservation line at Lowes. I found that knowing I was sticking to those colors really helped me feel less overwhelmed with all of the choices out there, and it gave our finished home a classic feel that isn’t too trendy and won’t go out of style. We tried to think about all of the possible uses for every room. Right now we use our office as an office. But in the future we might need to use it as a bedroom for an aging parent or grandparent, or we might want to turn it into another family room space and have an entertainment center in there. I talked about all of those uses with our electrician and then he suggested where to install cable and phone jacks and outlets, accordingly.
- Sometimes when you are building it is easy to let the “But I want it” urge take over, and that is how you get yourself over budget with upgrades and extras. If we ever decided that we wanted to add something extra, we took something else away. I found myself constantly asking the question, “How often am I going to use that?” For example, one of the ways we saved a large chunk of money was by making two sets of french doors into the kind of doors where only one side opens and the other “door” is basically just a large stationary window that can’t be opened. To be honest, I really didn’t want to do that. I wanted my french doors to be able to open on both sides. But I also wanted real hardwood floors and solid surface countertops and something was just going to have to give if we wanted to stay on budget. I use my floors and my counters every day. So far we have lived in this house for a few years and the only days I wish that those other doors opened are when we are moving in a very large piece of furniture, which is maybe once a year.
- We got our hands dirty too. Some things we did ourselves to save time and money. I am very fortunate because my husband is very handy (and I am not that bad either, if I do say so myself). He was able to run the system for our surround sound before our walls went up. We also did our Airstone fireplace installation ourselves. When it comes to building an entire house, it is important to know what you are legally allowed to do in your area and what you should hire licensed professionals to do for you.
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The $30 Weekly Meal Plan: How to Get 7 Dinners for Under $30
Are you looking for more affordable dinner options? Me too! Our family has been relying too much on convenience foods lately and our food budget has gotten out of control. I really want to work on reining it back in. I know a lot of other families are on a very tight budget right now as well. I lived with my grandmother for several years just before I got married. She was a woman who had grown up during the Great Depression and taught me a lot about being resourceful and using every part of what you have. She was also on a very tight grocery budget because she had a fixed income. I lived with her for three years, and I drove her to do her grocery shopping for several years before that. I am here to tell you that she was not really a couponer, but I never once saw her pay more than $50 for a week’s worth of groceries. Now that I have my own family to feed, I can appreciate that even more!
For this post, using Mommom as my inspiration, I wanted to challenge myself to come up with a week-long dinner menu for around $30 that could feed more than one person.
I wanted to use real prices, not just estimates, so I went online to my local Peapod grocery chain and actually added all of these items to my cart. The total came to $26.41 before tax. That leaves room to stock your pantry by adding some spices, butter, or an onion pretty easily and still stay on budget. Here is a screenshot of the order:
Here’s what I came up with. These are the actual prices right now for my region in Pennsylvania. The prices for things like eggs might vary according to where you live, but hopefully this menu will still be relatively affordable.
Shopping List:
Frozen spinach, store brand $0.99
Frozen Corn, 1 bag $0.99
Shredded cheddar cheese $2.50
Whole chicken- $7.75
Canned black beans, store brand (2) $0.69 each
Canned corn, store brand $0.79
1 box of Brown Rice $1.99
Eggs- Grade A Medium (2 dozen) $2.19 per dozen
Store brand sandwich bread $0.99
Taco seasoning- $0.89
16 count whole grain tortillas $1.69
Organic carrots- 16oz bag $1.29
Tomatoes with Mild Chiles, 1 can, store brand $0.79
Day 1: Roasted Chicken and Carrots
Today we are going to roast the whole chicken. I like to roast a chicken by covering it with butter, salt, pepper, and oregano, and putting it in a 13×9 baking dish 350 oven for about 2.5 hours, tented with aluminum foil. If we don’t have any butter, that’s fine. we will just baste it every 30 minutes or so with its own juices. I peel and cut about four carrots into sticks and let them roast in the same pan as the chicken. I like to add just enough water to the pan to cover the carrots on the bottom. (Not a lot because you don’t want it to boil over and make a huge mess in your oven.)
When the chicken is done, we are going to cut a good chunk of it off (about 1/2 of the meat) and reserve it for later. Let it cool, then remove the skin and shred the meat. Save it in the refrigerator or freezer.
Also save the chicken carcass (the bones). We are going to use it as a base for making our own chicken stock later in the week.
If you have butter and flour on hand, you can also make an easy gravy with the pan drippings. Just melt a teaspoon of butter in a small pan, then add a teaspoon of flour. Let them cook together for one minute, stirring constantly. Then use a whisk to incorporate the drippings from the bottom of the pan where you cooked your chicken. You might also want to add some salt and pepper.
Day 2: Chicken Corn Soup
Today we are going to make soup. We are going to eat half now and put some in the freezer for a rainy day. Start by putting the chicken carcass in a large pot and filling the pot with water. Bring the water to a boil, then reduce the heat and simmer, covered, for at least 2 hours, stirring occasionally. (You can also do this in a slow cooker set on low while you are at work or overnight.) Ta-da! Now you have homemade chicken broth that is going to be the base for your soup.
Remove the bones from the broth and discard them. Then follow the rest of my chicken corn soup recipe, just substitute the frozen corn from our shopping list for the fresh corn in the recipe. Make sure that you have still reserved some chicken, because we have one more chicken recipe coming later in the week.
Day 3: Breakfast For Dinner
We might be getting sick of chicken by now, so we are going to take a break and do breakfast for dinner. Use 1 dozen of the eggs for scrambled eggs (or whatever kind of eggs your family likes best) and toast.
Day 4: Chicken Tortilla Soup
We are making soup again. This time we are doing a quick and easy weeknight version that comes together in under 20 minutes. Once again, I’m going to suggest that you freeze whatever your family doesn’t eat so that you have another meal on hand for later in the month.
In a large pot, place the remainder of the chicken, 1 can of black beans (rinsed and drained), 1 can of corn (drained), 1 can of tomatoes with mild green chiles, and a packet of taco seasoning. Fill the pot with water and heat everything together.
In the meantime, remove two or three tortillas from the package. Cut them each into 8 piece wedges (like a pie) and spread them onto a cookie sheet. Sprinkle them with salt and a little oil if you have it, then bake them at 350 degrees for about 8 minutes.
Top each bowl of soup with a sprinkle of shredded cheese and a few of your homemade tortilla chips.
Day 5: Spinach Fata Served with Brown Rice
My husband and my son both love my mother-in-law’s fried spinach recipe. The cheese makes it very kid-friendly. If you do not have seasoned bread crumbs on hand, just make your own crumbs with the heal of the loaf of bread on our list. Serve this over a bed of brown rice for a very affordable, quick and easy meatless weeknight meal.
Day 6: Black Bean Burritos OR Burgers
Cook some of the rice and heat a can of beans, and fill tortillas with the rice and beans mixture.
If you have any shredded cheese left over by this time in the week, you could also make cheese quesadillas. (My husband doesn’t like beans or potatoes or several other low budget foods, so I understand those of you who have issues with picky eaters. Although I do still serve those foods, he just picks them out.)
Alternative: If you aren’t into the idea of burritos, you could do black bean burgers on toast instead. (You will want to add an onion to your shopping list if you plan to make these.) The Pioneer Woman has a great recipe here.
Day 7: Use It or Lose It Day
Use up whatever you have left. Maybe your family likes egg salad sandwiches (mine doesn’t, but they LOVE deviled eggs), maybe you’d like to do a rice bowl with a fried egg on top, maybe you want to use some of your left over soup today. If you had black bean burgers on toast yesterday, then you should still have left over tortillas and you might want to do breakfast burritos for dinner tonight. Mix it up and have fun!
Breakfasts and Lunches:
If you are following a $50 weekly budget like my Mommom did, you should still have about $20 of wiggle room to add fruits (bananas and apples or applesauce are affordable options in our area), and breakfast items. As an adult, I now will often eat yogurt or a banana for breakfast and my kids like cereal, but Mommom often gave us oatmeal or occasionally toast with cinnamon and sugar on it. I’d recommend picking up an additional loaf of bread and some tuna, celery, and/or peanut butter for lunches. Popcorn kernels also make a great snack. They are a little pricey up front, but one container last for several weeks and you can pop them yourself in the microwave without any butter or oil, which makes them a healthy choice. If you bought potatoes and onions and did not use all of those ingredients for your dinners, consider using some of them to make hash browns.
Our grandmothers used up every bit of what they had and usually cooked meals that consisted of whole foods for their families. If we get back in the habit of doing the same, it will be healthier, tastier, and better for our budgets.
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Nana’s Apple Cake Recipe
Fall is synonymous with apples around here. We have two apple trees in our back yard and a local orchard about a mile away. This apple cake recipe from my Mother-in-law is probably my husband’s favorite way to eat some of those apples. It’s moist, fluffy, and the cinnamon smell fills your whole kitchen with a big autumn hug.
Nana makes her apple cake in a bunt pan. I used a 13×9 pan for mine and did not use quite as much of the apple mixture. (I only used 4 apples, instead of the 6 listed in the recipe.)
Apple Cake Recipe:
2 tsp cinnamon
1/4 cup of sugar
1/2 tsp salt
Combine and mix well in a large mixing bowl
In a floured and greased bundt pan pour half the batter. Add half the apple mixture. Pour remaining batter over apples, and top with the remaining apple mixture.
Bake at 350 for 1 1/2 hours to 2 hours. Check with a cake tester to make sure the cake is done.
Ten Alternatives to Halloween Candy
When we were growing up, my little brother was diagnosed with a severe peanut allergy. I will never forget that I was the person who had to call the ambulance for him when I was twelve and he was not quite two because a cracker with peanut butter on it made him turn red and splotchy and then start gasping for air. Once we had to leave a major league baseball game because he was starting to have a reaction to the peanut dust in the air. Can you imagine being a little boy and not being able to go to a baseball game without fearing for your life? Every year Halloween is especially hard for kids with food allergies or diabetes because they want to participate in the fun of dressing up and trick-or-treating with their friends, but they just can’t have the same foods that many of the rest of us can. Because I know first hand what it is like to grow up in a house with a child with severe food allergies, I always like to make sure to offer alternatives to Halloween candy and be a house that has nut-free candy options.
Here are my Ten Favorite Alternatives to Halloween Candy:
- I liked to offer PlayDoh to the kids in my first grade classroom in orange and black colors and it was a big hit. Although, if a child has a wheat allergy, it is important to note that Play-doh does contain wheat.
2. We attended a trunk or treat once where a friend from church was giving out glow sticks and I thought this was a great idea! All of the kids LOVED them, they are just as affordable as candy if you buy them in bulk (You can get 100 for about $9, so they are less than 10 cents each), and they have the added safety feature of making the kids much easier to see after dark.
3. Spider rings. These are always a huge hit with kids and they are very affordable.
4. A little bit pricier than the spider rings or glow sticks, but still less than $1 each, these mini maze puzzle games are another option if you want to take the toy route.
5. Fun pencils are always a hit with young school-aged kids, and these Halloween pencils with giant erasers are a fun idea.
6. There are miniature card games for kids available that would be a fun thing to get in your bag and would last longer than candy.
7. I can guarantee that if my 8-year-old son found a yo-yo in his trick-or-treat bag, whoever gave it to him would be his personal hero.
8. Small flashlights. In the same vein as glow sticks, kids are obsessed with flashlights. They make the kids easier to spot at night, and you get the added bonus of being a cool house. If my kids got these in their bags, I imagine Nick and Abby would be in our yard playing flashlight tag and Abby would sneak hers into her room so she could read with it under the covers.
9. Secret message invisible ink pens. These pens each come with their own special light in the cap to reveal your secret message. That’s just cool. I kind of want one.
10. I think it would be really fun to hand out chalk and have a large roll of black butcher paper or chalkboard paper (like this one that you can get on Etsy) displayed on your front lawn, where the kids could then take their chalk and go color. If you are artistic, you could sketch a big Halloween scene on the paper in advance. I would be sure to have an adult supervising, though, or else the older kids might get a little graphic with their art work or written language. (Says the 6th grade teacher in me.)
Do you have any alternatives to candy that you like to hand out to trick or treaters?
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Crockpot Chuck Roast and Veggies
I am glad that you all encouraged me to pull out my Crock pot and try it again! We put it away a few years ago because it had really bothered Nicholas’ sensory issues. But I tried again this week with one of my favorites from my childhood, and I am happy to say, the smells of the cooking food did not seem to bother Nick nearly as much any more.
We started with an old favorite- pot roast with carrots and potatoes. When I was a little girl, my mom used to call this meal “Sticks, stones, and dirt.” (The “sticks” were the carrots, the “stones” were the potatoes, and the brown meat was the “dirt.”) It’s not the prettiest meal to look at, but it tastes REALLY good. This is great winter time comfort food. This is the kind of meal that feeds a crowd, too. So you can plan to have it feed your family for two nights, or invite friends over for dinner, or take some of the left-overs to an elderly neighbor.
If I remember correctly, my mom makes her version in a pressure cooker and used beef bullion. My version is a little different than hers.
- 4 or 5 potatoes
- 5 carrots
- 1/4 of one white onion, diced
- steak sauce, such as A1
- Chuck roast
- salt and pepper to taste
- water
- 1. Wash potatoes and cut into large chunks, adding to slow cooker.
- 2. Wash, peel, and slice carrots, then addd them to the slow cooker.
- 3. Dice 1/4 of onion and add to slow cooker.
- 4. Add meat on top of vegetables.
- 5. Add water, just until vegetables fully submerged.
- 6. Rub top of meat with steak sauce and add salt and pepper to taste.
- 7. Add one additional cup of water on top of meat.
- 8. Place lid on slow cooker and cook on high for 4 hours, or low for up to 8 hours.
- I like to use one potato and one carrot per person, which usually yields left overs for my family of five.
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5 Low-Stress Labor Day Recipes
It’s Labor Day weekend and that means a lot of us are getting ready for parties and cookouts! Labor Day was one of my favorite holidays as a child, it was a day we looked forward to all year because my family used to have a HUGE cookout on my uncle’s farm. It was a potluck where everyone would bring their favorite recipes to share. But that doesn’t mean you need to slave away in your kitchen over your holiday. Here are my five favorite recipes from the blog that require the least amount of labor to prepare. All of these recipes require ten minutes of preparation or less. Click on the individual pictures below to be taken to each recipe.
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If you use rotisserie or canned chicken for this crockpot buffalo chicken dip, it can also be thrown together in just a few minutes, then left to heat up in the crock pot!
Lunchbox Confessions- The Good, the Bad, and the Moldy: Why We Finally Switched to PlanetBox
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All right, before everybody starts asking me why in the world I am talking about such an expensive lunchbox today, let me tell you, I totally get where you are coming from. I have had my eye on these lunchboxes for about four years, since my oldest was in preschool, but I haven’t tried them until now because the price tag is very steep. But…
I have a deep, dark confession. Are you ready? Last year my son’s lunchbox got mold in it. More than once. And the year before that. I know. Then my daughter went to kindergarten and it happened to her too, and I knew it was a universal problem and not just a mysterious “boy problem,” like his room smelling like feet all the time. Something was wrong. I kept having to buy new $20 lunchboxes. I bought three lunchboxes for Nicholas last year alone. So I was spending $60 on lunch boxes anyway, I was just spreading it out and those cheaper lunchboxes weren’t lasting. I actively went on the hunt for a modern version of old school metal lunchboxes, and I found one that was more environmentally friendly, had a five year warranty, and came very highly recommended by other parents who had actually bought it.
I have another confession: I am a snob about certain things, but lunchboxes was never one of them. For example, I am a backpack snob. I think over time it works out to be much less expensive than paying over and over again for the cheaper ones that fall apart and aren’t as well-designed for their backs. I’ve always invested in the expensive backpacks for my kids instead of the cheaper character ones. And I really do think of it as an investment. I paid a little more for Nicholas’ first name brand backpack (the kind from the camping website that can be monogrammed, you know the one). Yes, it was a little more expensive upfront than the plastic backpacks at the big box stores, but it lasted him for four years, and I only got him a new one last year because he wanted a new color; it would have lasted longer. So we had backpacks on lockdown. I’m also willing to pay for higher end shoes when my kids are learning to walk. Sometimes I think it is just worth it to shell out the extra money up front, as long as it is not a hardship for your family. And I am learning that lunchboxes really might be one of those times. If the food that my children are going to eat is sitting in something for hours, I want that thing to be as healthy and well-made as possible.
I always bought brand name, seamless, washable lunchboxes, but even those had their issues. I don’t know about your school, but around here there is this policy where the school often sends home ALL of the uneaten food with your kid. I understand that this is so that parents can see how much the kids eat and also so that nothing gets wasted. However, it also means that a lot of half-eaten applesauce and not-quite-finished juice boxes were sitting in our fabric lunchboxes for hours. Even when I asked my kids to put their trash in the extra baggies I sent for that purpose, they were in first grade and kindergarten at the time, so I couldn’t really blame them when their level of cleanliness wasn’t up to par with my own. Um…there was a mold situation. More than once. It was so gross, you guys. I was getting really tired of trying to decide between buying new lunch boxes (again!) and if it was safe to send food the next day in a lunchbox that had been bleached, but had just been contaminated with mold the day before. And no matter what I did, I could never seem to get all of it out of the stitching. I was throwing away so many lunchboxes!
I had heard about PlanetBox on other blogs and from friends who very highly recommended them. One of my friends told me that her kids have been using their PlanetBoxes for almost six years! (She bought new fabric covers, but reports that the stainless steel interior- the expensive part- is fine.) They are unique in that this Rover design is a lunchbox designed for kids, but with a removable stainless steel interior that can go into the dishwasher. Not fabric inside! Finally! Plus because of the way that the interior is divided, like a bento box, you do not need to use any plastic bags or other containers either, so it is better for the environment too. And the divided compartments also help them learn to independently pack their own lunches and gauge portion control in a covert way, without me having to say anything. But I’ll admit the high price tag was REALLY hard for me to swallow at first because, with Penny starting preschool, I have THREE kids in school this year.
Yes, they are expensive. I do know, though, that sometimes you really do get what you pay for. Every year for the past three years I have had to buy at least two or three $20 lunchboxes per kid. If these last through one entire school year, let alone two or three (or four, like Nick’s first backpack), they will have paid for themselves. The stainless steel from PlanetBox is warrantied for 5 years, so that is not an unrealistic goal. Plus the company says themselves, “We take ‘non-toxic, non-leaching, safe from BPA, phthalates, and lead’ very seriously – in fact, it’s why we designed PlanetBox! We don’t think you will find safer products on the market than ours.”
I reached out to PlanetBoxto review. I have to say, the kids love them even more than I thought they would. Their favorite part was being able to decorate the front with magnets, like a puzzle. And because a set of magnets costs less than $4, maybe we will be able to get a new set of magnets to let them redecorate the lunchbox they already have instead of a buying a whole new lunchbox each year. Right now Nick has a red carrying case with dinosaur magnets and Abby has a pink carrying case with fairy magnets. Abby is especially fond of hers. She volunteered to make a video to show it off to you.
If you have ever wondered how a first grader would review a PlanetBox Rover lunch box, today is your lucky day! I’m going to hand it over to Abby so that you can see for yourself how PlanetBox might compare to your current lunchbox.
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Ten Reasons Golf Is Great For Kids

Have you been wondering what sport would be a good fit for your child? Is golf good for kids?
When people first find out that our young kids play golf they tend to have one of the following reactions:
That’s weird.
You must be rich.
Or just…Why? Isn’t that, like, really boring?
To tell you the truth, I am not the biggest golf lover myself. If I had to choose between spending a Saturday watching The Open or, well, pretty much anything else, I know which one I would pick. Watching other people play golf is pretty boring. To me. But my husband and my kids are into it and it’s something they like to do together, so more power to them. The kids know who Bubba Watson is, and I know that, as an adoptive mom, I really appreciate that he is open about his family’s adoptions. I like that golf is something that my kids, their dad, their uncle, their grandparents, and even their great-grandfather can all do.
And there are ten other reasons I think golf is a great for kids, as well.
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1. Math
As anyone who has ever played miniature golf at the beach knows, there is a lot of basic addition involved in golf and responsibility in keeping track of your own score. More so than many other sports played by young children.
2. It Stays With You
Golf and tennis are two of the few sports that people continue to play into retirement. My grandfather is eighty years old and he still plays golf. It is a life skill that stays with you. But of the few options for lifelong sports, golf is the one around which most business deals are conducted, and I hope to raise children who eventually grow into adults. It is an advantage in the business world to know how to play golf, and preferably well. Learning while you are young gives you an advantage later.
3. It’s Not a Contact Sport
If you are a mom who is too worried about potential injuries to sign your child up for football or if you have a child that has special needs that make him/her a little bit slower on the field than some of his/her peers and make it hard to participate in team sports or even individual sports that are timed, then golf is a great sport to consider! You can go at your own pace, be active for hours at a time, and it’s a multi-generational activity.
4. Room for the Ladies
I also really like that because of the way that the game is designed, if you are part of a group of men playing in a tournament– say for a business outing– it is to your advantage to have a woman on your team, if she is good at the sport. As my husband explained to me, he has played in several tournaments where the women’s tee box might be 80 to 100 yards closer to the hole than the men’s, but the woman on his team only hit the ball 40 or 60 yards shorter than he did, on average. Because in a tournament you often use the best shot from your team, collectively, that often gives the team with the woman a distinct advantage, as long as she has experience and is a good golfer. Eddie is not shy about admitting the fact that his ideal golf team would include a woman, and I know many men who feel the same way. How many other male-dominated sports can you say that about? (If you are not sure if golf should be considered a sport, try playing a round–without a golf cart– and see how your muscles feel the next day.)
5. You Play Against You
Other than those group tournaments, for the most part golf is an individual sport, just like swimming or running. If you are going to win or if you are going to lose, it is going to be because of you, because of a victory or a mistake you made on your own, not because your teammate struck out in the bottom of the ninth or someone else threw the winning touchdown. You get to own all of the highs as well as the responsibility of all of the lows.
6. Gross Motor Development
Our son has special needs and golf has been great for his gross motor skills. The big motions required for a drive and the smaller range of motion required for putting help him learn how to control certain muscle groups. He is willing to spend hours in the back yard practicing his golf swing, whereas he would not necessarily want to do hours of occupational therapy working on those muscles. It’s also great for strengthening his grip.
7. Public Access
Golf gets a bad rap for being an elitist sport. Some of that is well-deserved because it is true that, unfortunately, there are places that exist that still have that attitude. But there are also plenty of public courses and driving ranges where you don’t have to be a member at all. Although not many people do bring kids, there is nothing stopping you. Our family just went to the driving range this weekend. You can just show up with your children and it costs just a few dollars to get a small bucket of golf balls. You can usually find gently used golf clubs in children’s sizes at yard sales or on Craig’s List. I checked this week and someone local to us had a set listed for $5. Once you have your clubs, the driving range is an affordable family outing. Or once you are ready for the course, most clubs offer steeply discounted twilight hours if you are willing to go out later in the day when there aren’t as many people on the course. Twilight hours are in the evenings, which are after school hours anyway and a great time to take out kids who are just starting to learn!
8. College
Did you know that in 2009 the NCAA said that there were a few hundred golf scholarships for women that went unused? That is not to say that getting any kind of athletic scholarship is easy, but there is certainly a big push to get more girls into golf right now.
9. Access to Pros
Golf is one of the few sports where it is pretty easy to guarantee that your child can be taught by a professional. My uncle was a golf pro at a fancy New England golf club and, let me tell you, the process for becoming a head golf pro is a lot more involved than you might think. They do have to pass tests in terms of their own playing ability, and he also went to college for it. There are only a few schools in the country that now offer the PGA Golf Management program, and they have 100% job placement upon completion. The golf pros at country clubs are probably not playing at the same level as the professionals on tour (or else they would be on tour themselves) but they are still good enough to be professionals. They have dedicated their entire lives to that game. If you sign up for golf lessons, chances are those lessons will be with someone who really knows what they are talking about. Experience is never a bad thing in a teacher. As fun as other sports are, a coach who is a professional is something I have just never been able to guarantee when I signed my son up for tee ball or pee wee football camp.
10. It’s Easier (And More Affordable) to Learn as a Kid
It’s easier to learn just about anything as a child, before you start to form bad habits and are set in your ways, making them harder to correct. But it is also more affordable, as a general rule, to learn to golf as a child because there are clinics and camps pretty readily available. Nicholas is starting a golf clinic this week that is six weeks long and only cost $6 more than the price of one weekend round at the same course for an adult. Because most of our other extra curricular activities don’t cost a lot of money right now, and golf is something Nick has expressed a genuine interest in (he even went to the Women’s U.S. Open with Eddie this summer to watch!) we are willing to make the investment. And seeing her big brother do it has really started to get Abby interested as well! She is now following Brooke Henderson, the 17-year-old girl who was just granted full LPGA Membership. At dinner last night Abby was counting on her fingers how many years she has to go until she is 17, like Brooke, and can wear pink pants and play golf on t.v.
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