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What Can A Blog Conference Do For You?

April 24, 2015 By: Stephanie3 Comments

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Why should you go to a blog conference These are some really solid reasons!

When people find out that I run the BlogU conference, the first expression on their face is usually confusion. Sometimes people have a hard time understanding exactly how much awesome is involved in attending a blog conference and how much it can fast-track the success of your writing career or small business. It’s not just about hanging out with friends and meeting the people who live in your computer (although you totally get to do that too). Attending a blog conference is a solid career move and will almost always translate into earning you real money and getting your foot in the door for great opportunities. 

You will get face time with brands and sponsors who want to build a relationship with you. 

The first time I went to a blog conference it was a big sacrifice for our family monetarily. Between the ticket, hotel, and travel costs, we spent hundreds of dollars. But while I was there I made connections with big-name brands and sponsors and when I got home I had their contact information. I was able to create relationships with them and for the rest of that year I did monthly sponsored posts for one brand in particular. Just eight weeks after the conference I had earned back every cent I had spent on the conference and was making hundreds of dollars a month in extra income for our family. The investment in myself was totally worth it. 

There are hundreds of influencers in one place. 

If you are a writer of any sort, blog conferences are a great place to network with other people in your field. Many bloggers have transitioned their blogs into books and some have even become New York Times best selling authors! Blog conferences are the place where they spill all of their secrets, tell you exactly how they built up their large social media followings, and share all of their other tips and tricks for getting noticed in the sea of internet anonymity.

If you are a business owner, hosting a vendor table, becoming a sponsor, or donating an item to the swag bag can get your brand noticed by a large group of people with an even larger social media influence. 

You will learn from the best. 

You can spend all day every day searching the internet for tips on how to build your blog or business, but the speakers at conferences have already been vetted and determined to be the best of the best. They know their chosen topics. You will be learning from some of the top earners and performers in the field and you will be live in the room with them, able to ask questions and interact in person. 

You will get unique opportunities. 

At our 2014 BlogU conference NickMom and The Huffington Post presented a joint lunch panel where representatives from both gave a presentation and told the attendees exactly what they were looking for in submissions and how to get published on each of their platforms. In 2015, HuffPost Parents is the media partner for the BlogU conference and we are partnering with them to hold our Term Paper of the Year contest, which is open only to BlogU attendees. Four winners will each receive an award during our conference and have their winning piece published on the appropriate HuffPost vertical. That is only one example of the many unique opportunities that attending blog conferences presents.    

Our conference is different.  

I started BlogU after going to several blog conferences and being consistently disappointed that I bought my tickets to see certain speakers and I never got to really talk to any of them. The speakers would give their presentations and then they would seemingly disappear. BlogU breaks down those “us” and “them” boundaries between those who are successful and those who are just starting out. After our sessions are over we hold “office hours” where all of the BlogU speakers are available to mingle with attendees and answer questions. 

We also hold BlogU on a college campus and give attendees the option of staying in dorm rooms. This means that you can buy a ticket to BlogU for the same price as many other blog conferences, but you don’t have to worry about the additional cost of a hotel or food. Because we host BlogU on a college campus with its own catering staff, we are able to include all of the meals in the ticket price as well. Breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks–once you get there everything is included. 

You will find your tribe. 

I often hear bloggers talking about finding their tribe. I was lucky enough to find a very supportive group early on. In fact, that “tribe” of women became the same group who helped me start BlogU. If you have been finding a hard time finding your tribe, then a blog conference is a great place to start. Making those face-to-face connections with real people in real time is special. It’s something that can’t always be done through the computer screen. 

If you think you might want to consider coming to BlogU this year, you can check out our website here. 

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Abby is Six!

April 21, 2015 By: Stephanie2 Comments

Yay! Abby is six today! 

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It’s hard to believe it’s been that long since we brought home a gorgeous 9 pound baby. 

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 Would you believe she was less than six weeks old in this picture? She was a big ol’ baby with a BIG set of lungs. They actually had to separate her from all of the other babies in the hospital nursery because her cry was so loud that it kept waking up all of the other babies and causing quite a bit of chaos. She was a challenging baby who hated to sleep and was very particular about wanting things a certain way. (She gets that from her momma.) 

She has grown into a big sister with a kind and compassionate heart. 

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And a little sister who can’t help but love to instigate a little bit of mischief. 

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She’s always been our most dramatic child. 

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 She loves art almost as much as she loves learning and will spend every waking minute of her free time trying to teach herself something. 

at the piano

 That is, when she’s not too busy dressing up and putting on shows. 

dancing

 She is terrified of tornadoes and spends a lot of time pondering questions that I would have thought beyond her years. 

daddy with daughter

Her favorite colors are pink and purple and she can’t decide if she wants to go to Panera Bread or Chuck E. Cheese for dinner tonight. (I might have tried to persuade her in one direction, but I think she saw right through me.) She’s still obsessed with the characters from the movie Frozen, although, come to think of it, I don’t think we’ve watched it for months. 

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She was advanced in every area of math on her report card and is very proud of the fact that she can read. She gets annoyed with me when I read the bedtime story to her brother and sister at night because she thinks that she should now and forever be the one who reads all of the books all of the time. She asked her grandparents for her very own desk for her room for as her birthday present. They brought it to us over the weekend and she is in love with it. 

Abby has been known to line up every stuffed animal that we own along the sofa or the fireplace hearth and conduct school for them. If you ask her what she wants to be when she grows up, she will tell you a teacher or a doctor. Lucky for her, there are lots of people who are both. I won’t be surprised if one day she joins their ranks. 

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In the meantime, Abby is having a lot of fun being six. 

 

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An Update on the Shorts from Target, Six Months Later

April 20, 2015 By: Stephanie85 Comments

An update on the girls' shorts from Target

 Last fall I wrote a blog post about the very short shorts that were available for my very young daughters from a certain very large retailer, and it got a very big reaction. (For anyone wondering how many times I could cram the word “very” into one sentence, the answer is four.) At the time, the pictures I snapped with my iPhone at my local Target became international news. Before I knew it, a crew from Good Morning America was in my living room, Glenn Beck flew me to Texas to appear on his show, and I was getting flooded with requests for interviews and permission to republish those pictures. My post really seemed to touch a nerve with parents who were frustrated with the limited options available to our girls in retail stores. 

After seeing my post, Target’s Public Relations department reached out to me and made several offers. At first we were talking about me being able to speak with one of their designers. Unfortunately, they decided to take that off the table. But they did allow me to send them some detailed feedback via email and they sent me two shipments of samples from their children’s line over the past few months. The shipment with the shorts for my girls from this year’s line arrived a few weeks ago. Yesterday it was finally warm enough for the kids to wear their new shorts. This year Abby is in a size 6 and Penny is in a size 3T. 

girls playing in shorts from Target

little girl wearing Bermuda shorts from Target    

Our peach tree is in bloom, so we went out to the back yard to have the girls model some of the shorts that Target sent. 

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Target shorts

Target Bermuda shorts

Target shorts with longer inseams

Shorts from Target

girls' shorts from Target

To Target’s credit, they did send several pairs of shorts that met my criteria for length. This means they do have options in their children’s line this year for girls who want shorts with inseams longer than an inch. They also sent a pair that are similar to the ones that Penny was wearing in my original post, A Target Intervention on Behalf of my Daughters. The inseam on that pair was about an inch and a half. 

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The frustration I have been hearing from literally thousands of moms over the past few months is that when they go into their local Target or other retail stores, the only options on the shelves seem to be the ones with the smaller inseams. We are not sure what the deal is with this. 

From wanting their kids to try on the clothes in the dressing room, to not having internet access, to being on cash-only spending plans, families had lots of reasons for needing to buy their clothes in person from a retail store rather than online. Yet over and over longer inseams popped up as online-only, more expensive, “premium” options– not just at Target, but almost everywhere. Moms are speaking out across social media and asking for different options in their price range. The girls themselves have been studied by the American Psychological Association and report that they do not like the options being offered to them. Princeton has done legitimate scientific studies that prove that women who dress in more revealing clothing are more likely to be seen as objects and less human. (The fact that we don’t want that to be true does not make it any less true, unfortunately.)

No one seems to be able to provide a logical explanation for why we are still seeing this trend on our store shelves, but we definitely are. 

People may say that stores are only selling it because moms are buying it, but for six months now moms have been telling me that they are only buying it because it is often the only thing available on the shelves. 

Here are just a few of the pictures and comments that moms have been sending me:

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booty shorts at Target

short inseams at Target

Shorts comparison at Target

Ellen said, “I have two teenage daughters and shopping for shorts having inseams longer than an inch is like trying to find water in the desert or modesty in Vegas: it’s difficult. It’s sad when boy short underwear is actually longer than shorts meant as outerwear. And shopping in the women’s department is not an option because with the gradual inflation of sizes there, even a size 0 there is too big.” 

Rebecca added, “I can’t find a single pair of shorts for my 15-year-old that are longer than an inch. Although there’s a multitude of boys’ basketball shorts, cargo shorts and jorts for boys that go to their knees, girls are only expected to wear thigh-high short shorts. It’s hard finding a pair of shorts suitable to wear to high school because any of the fashionable shorts available do not pass the fingertip length test.” 

And Courtney commented, “I never thought I’d have to buy boy’s shorts for my modest, long-legged 7-year-old daughter. Shorts that fit around her waist are significantly shorter and tighter. As a culture the clothing industry is sending the wrong message to our girls.” 

If you are listening, retailers, I still think we can do better. 

And if you are a mom who does prefer to shop online, Jess from Don’t Mind The Mess has put together and entire post about where you can find shorts for your girls with longer inseams. 

where to find long shorts for girls

You can also follow along with my Pinterest board, where I’m collecting options recommended by readers. 

Follow Stephanie {Binkies and Briefcases} ‘s board Cute and Modest Options for Girls on Pinterest.

If you’re interested, you can read about all of the original reasons I care about this issue. Some of them might surprise you. 

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Stephanie Giese is an indie author based in Florida. She writes stories about realistic problems with humor, heart, and sass. Her work has a strong focus on mental health and consent. Her North Bay small-town romance series is set for release in 2025.

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