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Building the Dream: Gables and Names

July 31, 2013 By: Stephanie9 Comments

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This week we’ve started making a little more progress.

We have applied to get special permission for Nicholas to start the school year at the public school near our property, although the house won’t be finished yet. I would hate to have him start the year at a different school just to be there for a few weeks. 

The crew has been working on the front of the house, particularly the gable dormer.

house with dormer

house dormer

I’d really like to come up with a special name for our property. I fell in love with the idea after meeting Yvonne from Stone Gable, who lives very close to us and hearing about the history behind her home. (Yvonne will be attending the Haven conference with me this week and my plan is to stalk her in the friendliest way possible, of course-and force convince her to be my style mentor. I will call her Auntie Yvonne and we will sip lemonade on her gorgeous wrap-around porch. Or she will call the police. One or the other.)

We need help with this naming business. We’re not very good. The best Eddie and I came up with after hours of brainstorming was Green Acres and, um, that has already been taken by a cheesy old tv show, so….please give me suggestions if you have them!!

There has also been a lot of this:

putting together cabinets

Eddie had been letting the kids help him put together the kitchen cabinets. We now have half of the boxes built. There are cabinets in two closets and the living room in the apartment where we are staying while the house is built, and more in a storage unit. They are taking over!

Choosing the Countertops

I took the kids all around town on Monday and got countertop quotes from 3 different places.

Right now I am in love with white granite that looks like marble, like the island in this image from Rabbit Runn Designs:

white granite

Sadly, I learned that there is NO WAY that it is going to fit into my budget. Bummer. Every place I went had it labeled as one of their “exotics” and it was priced at almost $100/foot. I need over 55 feet plus cutouts for two sinks and a cooktop and installation fees and and and…$$$$$.  Plus I heard rumors that it will stain and we are not easy on our counters around here.

But look how pretty it looks. 🙁 This kitchen by Samantha Manning has a very similar layout to ours and I’ve been using it as inspiration.

Traditional Kitchen by Lexington Kitchen & Bath Designers Creative Kitchen and Bath

Can we pause and just take a moment to grieve the loss of the white granite I will never have?

Sigh.

Thank you.

The run-of-the-mill granite from Lowes was the most affordable quote I got (by almost $2,000! It was actually about the same price as installed laminate, which was pretty crazy.) But it was also my least favorite option. I thought it already felt dated. Right now I am leaning toward the solid surface (Corian-style) counters from Home Depot.  They looked about a gazillion times better in the store than they do online. They were more expensive than Lowes, but it was still in my budget and I liked their color choices much better. Also, I did not appreciate that Lowes had a weird rule about choosing a different material for the island. You weren’t allowed to mix grades, so you couldn’t choose a nicer material to feature on the island and use a cheaper neutral on the perimeter. That’s a really dumb rule if you ask me. The third place we went was a privately owned granite yard and their prices were pretty comparable to the big box stores, but they were booked solid for three months, so they probably won’t be able to install within our necessary time frame.

So far this is the hardest decision I’ve had to make. Each style and color brings such a drastically different feel to the space (or at least I think it will. It’s hard when there’s not even a room yet to take samples into) and I want something I’m going to love for 20+ years, so I think I’m going to avoid looking at Pinterest kitchens (gasp!) for a little while and try to go with something neutral (and on-budget!) that can transition through style phases with me.

Look at me being all grown-up and making practical decisions and stuff.

I hope I can start showing you finished spaces very, very soon!!!!

 

 

 

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Beach House Tour

July 30, 2013 By: Stephanie9 Comments

When I told you about our vacation to North Captiva Island in Florida last month, I promised you a post about my dad and step-mom’s new house.

My dad is a CPA, but for as long as I can remember he has had a side business scooping up rental properties. When he married my step-mom, Helen, a few years ago she joined him and this is one of their first projects together. Since between them they have seven grown children, several with families of our own, they wanted a big vacation home to be able to hold all of us. Unlike the other properties they own, they actually designed and built this house from the ground up.

For now this house is also available for rent, but one day it may be where they retire.

Beach House Tour

It’s not your average beach house. It’s very modern and Helen, who is already a very talented decorator, worked with an interior designer to create some jaw-dropping spaces. Since this is a source of income, it’s important to use quality fabrics and furnishings that can not only stand up to harsh weather conditions, but also draw renters. (If you are interested in booking a week, you can get more information here. There are also much better pictures of the kitchen on the listing.)

Beach House Tour from @binkiesandbrief

The house easily sleeps 10+ people and has 5 bathrooms, which is awesome when you have a very large family. There are also private balconies on each level (the house has 3 floors), and a salt water pool.

North Captiva is a very secluded island on the Golf Coast of Florida. You can only access it by boat and once you get there they don’t allow cars, so you have to travel by golf cart. A large part of the island is a dedicated nature preserve, which makes for some truly breathtaking scenery. 

It’s also very pricey. (As you already know if you clicked over and glanced at those rates and almost had a heart attack, like I did the first time I saw them.) Even the Popsicles at the little convenience store were over $5 each! That’s because nearly everything needs to be imported by barge onto the island. 

But since it’s my dad’s house and we were invited to stay there for a week, I get to share the pictures with you for free. 🙂

The ground floor is not finished. There are plans to add a game area and maybe another bathroom, but for now it is access to the pool deck area and the beach.

And now, just to prove how much I love you, I will show you a picture of me in a bathing suit crouching next to my more-than-half-naked child because this is the best picture I have of the pool deck area.

pool deck

 

The second floor has a living area, 3 bedroom suites, and a large laundry room. Each bedroom has an attached bathroom. There is also a wet bar area with a small refrigerator. This is the floor that we stayed on. Eddie and I had a room, Nick and Abby shared a room with my little brother, and my sister and her guest shared a room. We set up a Pack n Play for Penny in the laundry room. (Don’t judge me.)

beach house

This is the room where Eddie and I stayed.

North Captiva 8

  And this was my sister’s room. (She brought her own pillow, which is why the slouchy blue one looks out of place.)

North Captiva 9

The top floor has a living area with a beautiful view, the kitchen (which I truly regret not taking more pictures of), the master suite where Dad & Helen were staying (which I also regret not getting ANY pictures of), the dining room, and an extra half bath. There is also a screened-in eating area.

beach house tour

It was a little strange getting used to the kitchen being on the top floor, but it made sense, because this was the view out the window.

view

Because of way that the property rights work in North Captiva, Dad & Helen actually own all of the property from their house down to the water line, which means that this is a private beach. It was so awesome to have that much privacy and not think twice about the way that you look in a bathing suit or having to strain to keep an eye on the kids through a crowd!

Well, that’s about it. I’m sorry I was a bad blogger and didn’t take more detailed pictures of each space. Especially the kitchen.

Next time, I promise.

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Dear Kip Moore: how one song changed a little boy’s life

July 29, 2013 By: Stephanie9 Comments

This is a very sweet story about how the song Hey Pretty Girl by Kip Moore touched the heart of a little boy who was struggling to understand his adoption.

I love you.

No, seriously.

You see, we have this little boy to raise and it isn’t always easy. 

Sometimes he gets angry and throws chairs and breaks doors off of hinges or takes a permanent marker to everything in the living room.

Sometimes he screams that we’re not his family because, biologically, we’re not. Sometimes he truly believes he hates us and he wants his “real” mommy back, even though he never really knew her.

But today was just an ordinary day, not one of the tough ones, and your song was on the minivan radio. When I looked in the rear view mirror I saw him crying. I asked why he was sad and, in his infinite 6-year-old wisdom, my son told me that sometimes people cry even when they’re not sad. 

Wiping tears away he said, “I’m not sad, Mom. It’s just this song. It touched deep in my heart.” 

He has heard your song before, but today he felt it.

He went on to explain as best he could as he processed that one day he could have a biological family of his very own. 

“It makes my heart feel something, but I’m not sad. One day will I be married like the song man? And then I’ll really be in a family? My own family?”

I wanted to insist that he’s in a family now, and I tried to remind him gently,  but, no matter what I say or do, to him, it can never be the same. Kip Moore, today you gave him the gift of hope. Hope that there will be belonging and blood relation and kinship in his future.

So this momma thanks you.

And your song’s pretty good too.

Love, 

Nick’s Mom

 

 

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Stephanie Giese is an indie author based in Florida. She writes stories about realistic problems with humor, heart, and sass. Her work has a strong focus on mental health and consent. Her North Bay small-town romance series is set for release in 2025.

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