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Diary of a Reluctant Homeschooler: Week 1

September 7, 2012 By: Stephanie2 Comments

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Our first week of cyber school is over & I feel a little better.

I’ve learned a lot.

Week 1 Review of Kindergarten Homeschooling

For one thing, if you call it cyber school instead of homeschool, traditional homeschoolers are much less likely to get mad at you. Who knew there was a whole other mommy war battle going on between those who chose to educate their kids at home via online charter schools and those who do it without those resources? I’ve gotten quite a few rude comments via Facebook & email about how other people’s tax money is paying for my kid’s education. Really? We’re not accepting Welfare over here, we pay school taxes too. My personal stance on the issue is that if we are already paying for it, we might as well use it. Why wouldn’t I use a “free” (again, my taxes paid for it just as much as anyone else’s) award-winning, standards-based curriculum or computer?

Interestingly, the only negative feedback has come from traditional homeschoolers. I get it (sort of), they’ve fought hard to keep the government out of their kids’ education and they are cheesed that they have to pay for their own curriculum on top of the school taxes they have to pay. Sorry, guys. That’s your choice, just like paying for tuition at a private school would be. I’m sticking with what I know, which is public school and how to teach it.

We also have quite a few friends who traditionally homeschool who have been very supportive, so that’s helped soften the blows quite a bit. Many of our friends who have enrolled in public schools have expressed an interest in cyber schooling after they saw the curriculum we received.

Eddie and I have both been extremely impressed with Nicholas’ progress and performance this week. We’ve completed all of the math and language arts lessons and he has demonstrated mastery on every task. There is no way he would do that in a gen. ed. classroom. He even asked to do extra work last night when Eddie came home.

There is a lot of overlap in the subject areas, which is nice, I guess. They did identifying shapes and colors in math at the same time as color words in language arts, for example.

I like the language arts curriculum a lot, but in my opinion, math is too easy and the other subjects are WAY too hard.

Nicholas has a documented learning disability in math. He tested in the .04% range. He has only gotten one answer wrong this entire week. Either I’m the best teacher in the universe (which is entirely possible 😉 or it’s just too easy. That’s awesome for us, but if your child is on or above grade level, I can’t imagine using this math curriculum. However, I did see on the school’s Facebook page that some of the kindergarteners are starting with first-grade materials, so maybe that would be an option.

History is ridiculous. In the very first lesson we had to learn about the earth, then all of the continents, attributes of each continent,  as well as complete a paper that detailed famous structures that were located on the various continents like the Great Wall of China, the Great Barrier Reef, the Grand Canyon, etc. That was ONE lesson. In Kindergarten. Sheesh. Luckily, we only have to do history twice a week.

Also, history is different than social studies in this curriculum, so on that same day, we had a completely separate lesson about the Pledge of Allegiance.

Art was equally as intense. We were observing the features of an oil painting of Henry VI as a child, then comparing and contrasting it to a sculpture of a cowboy riding a horse. In order to do that, first, the lesson took us through the various aspects of a realistic portrait, then sculptures, then we had to learn about abstract art just for fun. Then there was a test. My poor kid had to take a test about Henry VI on the first day of kindergarten. Twice. He only got a 60% the first time, so he had to redo it. (The school policy is not to let you move on until you have an 80% or higher.) How dare he not know enough about English royalty by age 5. Clearly, I have been slacking on my motherly duties.

Apparently, the curriculum writers for art & history have never met an actual 5-year-old boy, or else they would realize that their audience has the attention span of a fly on crack and plan accordingly.

The last thing that I will complain about (I’m not sure why this feedback seems so negative because I’m actually liking it ok so far) is that I don’t appreciate that there is no “opt-out” option for tasks that are already mastered. We have to complete one online lesson to get to the next and I also have to complete a portfolio of completed paper assignments. For one of the lessons I gave him the final assessment first as a pretest and he got 100%. We should have been able to skip that lesson altogether, but we had to spend an hour “practicing.” Pre-tests, people. It would be awesome if there was a pretest at the beginning of each online lesson, it could track progress between the beginning and end of the lesson and also allow for a lot less time wasted completing unnecessary work. If the student demonstrates mastery of a task before you teach it, then you don’t waste time teaching it. Duh.

Even though I might sound a bit grumpy,  I really like a lot of the aspects of it so far. I have found that I’m much more patient than I thought I would be and that Nicholas is progressing faster and further in just this week than I would have expected to see in the entire first month. Phonics is his best subject. Who would have thought? The teachers have agreed to excuse us from the required live class sessions on certain days so that we can still participate in Community Bible Study and our Mom N Me program. Also, it is going pretty quickly. So far we have been able to complete most, if not all, of our work by lunch each day. We also got to go to a meet & greet last night with some more people from the school.

It was definitely the right choice for us.

*Update: Here are all of the posts I wrote about our homeschooling experience.

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler

How to Set up a Homeschool Nook

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, A is for A-ha moment!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Weird and Overwhelming

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, The Supplies Are Here!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Our First Day!

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Diary of a Reluctant Homeschooler: Our First Day!

September 4, 2012 By: Stephanie4 Comments

My big guy is in kindergarten!

This year we are participating in one of our state’s online charter schools. Basically, it’s a combination of public school and homeschool. The public school sends the materials and plans the curriculum and I teach him here at home along with some help from teachers over the computer.

First Day of Homeschooling

The days leading up to this morning have been stressful. Poor Nick has been really stressed too, not knowing what to expect. He cried himself to sleep last night saying, “I don’t want to be in kindergarten! I don’t want to be anything when I grow up, so I don’t have to learn!”  The school didn’t send the information about his classes until after 9 pm last night and he was required to be in an online class at 9 am this morning. Eddie and I were up until after midnight gathering the materials for the lessons that appeared on his calendar on the school’s website.

Then this morning the computer that the school sent for Nicholas wouldn’t connect to the internet, even though we had double and triple-checked everything last night. Luckily I got the Blackboard session to work on my laptop with two minutes to spare. It was chaotic talking to Eddie on the phone about how to solve the internet issue, Penny screaming, Nick chasing the dog, and Abby playing. I was not feeling so good about this decision.

In the Blackboard session, the teachers introduced themselves and read a book to the students, then they dismissed the kids and I let Nick watch a movie with Abby while I sat through the rest of the orientation. The teachers told us not to worry about any lessons this week. So…we were up all night for nothing. Awesome.

I didn’t want all that work to go to waste, so we did our Math and Language Arts lessons anyway. The teachers said the calendar was flexible, but I’d like to stick to it as much as possible on days when Nick is being cooperative because I’m sure there will be plenty of days when we slack off a little.

I put Penny in her crib and let her cry for a few minutes while I did the math lesson with Nick. He really seemed to thrive with the one-on-one attention and we finished the entire lesson (pulling shapes out of a bag, identifying them, finding shapes around us, completing 3 workbook pages, and an online portion) in under 15 minutes. When I marked the lesson complete on the computer it gave us credit for 45 minutes. I could get used to that.

Altogether, it took us less than an hour and a half to do our online orientation, math, language arts (although I skipped Handwriting because he completed those lessons over the summer), and a calendar session that I’ve added on my own, but when I checked “lessons complete” on the computer, he got credit for 3 hours of school. I feel like that’s cheating, but he did the work and he did it correctly, so I guess that’s just one of the perks. Hopefully, no truancy officers read my blog. 🙂

I like seeing areas of strength I didn’t know he had. For example, I was pleasantly surprised when he reached into the bag of shapes and said, correctly, “That’s a cylinder.” (They were only looking for circle as an answer.) And I also like seeing areas of weakness. He is having trouble distinguishing a rectangle from a square, but other than that he was able to identify all of the shapes and their colors correctly. Go, little dude!

The hardest part so far is writing his name, but as I’ve been working with him I’ve noticed some things I hadn’t seen before. I had not realized that a lot of his slowness comes from perfectionist tendencies (which came as a great surprise to me because of the state of his room!). He will start to write a letter, not like the way it looks, then keep writing the same letter over and over, all over the page until he writes one he likes. I always thought he was distracted because of the way his papers would look when they came home from preschool (incomplete with random letters all over them) but it’s actually the opposite. He is concentrating so hard on writing the letters of his name correctly that he never had time to do any of the other work on the page.

I’m thinking about getting a stamp with his name on it so that he has time to concentrate on other work, then we will focus on his name separately until he has mastered it.

We still have one phonics worksheet to do, but I’m letting him take a break right now. We started at 8:30 and were finished by 10 am. Now I feel a little better about this cyber school thing. 🙂

UPDATE: Here are all the posts I’ve written on our homeschooling experience.

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler

How to Set up a Homeschool Nook

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, A is for A-ha moment!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Weird and Overwhelming

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, The Supplies Are Here!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Week 1

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Diary of a Reluctant Homeschooler: Weird & Overwhelming

August 28, 2012 By: Stephanie3 Comments

Yesterday would have been Nicholas’ first day of kindergarten if he was attending our local public school.

I wasn’t expecting it to be hard for me to see pictures on Facebook of my friends’ kids getting on the school bus with their little backpacks or entering their classrooms for the first time, so it took me by surprise that those pictures made me really sad.

My son won’t ever have that First Day of Kindergarten rite of passage experience. He won’t ever get to ride the big yellow bus, not even if we send him to public school after we build our new house since our land is just across the street from the elementary school.

Homeschool Life_ Feeling Sadness Over the Life of My Kid's First Day of Public School

He won’t know the nervous excitement of meeting a whole class full of new friends or teachers who are even more excited about his learning than he is.

I know that a lot of homeschoolers think public schools are the devil’s playground, but I spent a great deal of time teaching in some amazing public schools with men, women, and a lot of children who I would LOVE to have shared in the experience of raising my son.

Yesterday was also a day of tragedy in our hometown. You probably heard about the shooting of a special needs student at Perry Hall High School in Baltimore. It was national news that hit very close to home for us. We grew up in that area and have several friends who are alumni of that school. Several other friends live in the neighborhood and have children who attend the elementary school.

It was scary and sad. Our hearts ache for the victim and all of the other students, teachers, and parents.

It also brought on a lot of “I told you so’s” from home school organizations in this area. Talk about giving some ammunition to that “devil’s playground” philosophy.

At the same time, I have been very frustrated trying to figure out the school schedule for the online charter school we will be using this year. They have been very unclear about how the process of taking online classes will work on the kindergarten level and it is overwhelming to me as a new home educator to not know our schedule for next week, whether or not we have to take certain classes, and if we do what time those classes will be. School is supposed to start one week from today and no one has any idea what is going on. I have sent emails, made phone calls, and gone to face-to-face meetings, but I still don’t have any answers.

I’m getting very close to wanting to pull out from the online school.

Also, having Nicholas on vacation with my mom last week gave me a glimpse of what life would be like with just my girls in the house if he went to school outside the home. If I’m being honest, it was very appealing. Without my lovable little tornado, my house stayed clean, it was calm and quiet, and I had time to concentrate on my girls and doing things they enjoy, like sitting and reading four or five books in a row. I was much more patient and kind and, with the extra time and attention, Abby is now potty trained!

It stings a little to know that that lifestyle could be a possibility every day if he was at school. Part of me feels like I am cheating two kids for the sake of helping one.

However, I know that this year homeschooling is still the best option for us. It is the best choice for Nick and his academic success. Not to mention that between selling this house, moving in with Eddie’s parents while our new house is built, and eventually moving into the new home, he would be in three different public schools this year if we went with that option.

Private schools are out of our budget right now, plus it would mean an hour and a half commute each way once we move in with my in-laws. That’s too much for a five-year-old.

However, if the online school doesn’t get its act together within the next few days, I’m going to have no choice but to withdraw and go the traditional homeschooling route. I really, really don’t want to do that.

I’m plenty overwhelmed right now as it is between getting this house sold, moving, building the new house, and starting our first (and the way it looks right now, probably only) year as homeschoolers. And, oh, yeah, I still have a nursing infant and a potty training preschooler to take care of.

The last option would be to decide to wait another year and have him start kindergarten next year, but I really hate that idea.

It feels like saying, “Hey, I know you’re supposed to be starting your education and building the foundation for literacy and your entire academic career, but it’s really not a great time for me, so… let’s just put your life on pause for a minute while I get my s**t together, k? You don’t mind being a year behind in everything for the rest of your life so I can take a breather, right?”

I know that there is a very real possibility that he will have to repeat kindergarten regardless of what we do this year, but I want to give him a chance to succeed at the very least. I feel like sitting around and waiting another year assumes that he isn’t good enough, and I don’t want to accept that possibility without giving him the opportunity to at least try.

No offense to you of that was the choice that you made for your own child, I’m sure you had your own reasons that were perfectly valid for your family. I’m just really having a hard time stomaching the idea of making that decision after fighting so hard for him (and pushing him to fight for himself) for the past four years.

Who knows? Maybe it would be the right choice. I don’t even know if I could pull him out of school right now even if I wanted to, now that he is already registered and in the system.

Why doesn’t anybody tell you that being a mom is so freaking hard? It’s just kindergarten, for crying out loud.

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler

How to Set up a Homeschool Nook

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, A is for A-ha moment!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, The Supplies Are Here!

Diary of a Reluctant Home Schooler, Week 1

 

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