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Building The Dream: Why It Takes Forever

June 4, 2012 By: Stephaniecomment

Several times a week I have friends and family ask me how the house is coming along. There is a lot (A LOT!) of behind-the-scenes work being done, but for various reasons, we haven’t been able to break ground just yet.

Home Build Getting Started

We will get there, I think it’s going to go very fast once we can actually start, but when you develop land from scratch it takes a very long time. It’s not at all like buying a lot in a subdivision from a developer and then they can start building right away because they have already done all of this behind-the-scenes stuff. We have to think about sewer mains, and water lines, and high occupancy permits, and sediment control, and installing new poles for the electricity, and yada yada yada. 

I’m impatiently waiting for the fun parts, like picking paint colors and countertops.

In case you are wondering why there haven’t been any pictures of excavators or giant mounds of dirt just yet…

We found our lot in October of last year, about 9 months ago. Since that is how long it takes me to grow an entire human being, lately I’ve been feeling a little frustrated that we haven’t even been able to break ground yet on our new house within that time frame.

Everything is actually going very smoothly (knock on wood) it just takes forever here in Pennsylvania. We are building in a Burrough, which is pretty much a small town within a larger town within a county. Therefore, there are a lot of extra rules we need to follow.

We have to have things approved by zoning boards (many of which only meet once a month) in a particular order and follow strict ordinances, such as the entire sewer system has to rely strictly on gravity, and the run-off and sediment have to have zero impact on the environment, which is great in terms of environmental responsibility, but makes the design process a little more complicated. Lucky for me, I married a top-notch civil engineer.

We are definitely going with the private builder, a wonderful man from our church who comes very highly recommended, and with a floor plan inspired by the Donald Gardner home I showed you before but modified to meet our needs, mostly larger rooms, and closets, a few doorways moved, a different roofline, etc.

Eddie worked very hard this weekend to add some more information to our plot plans, address comments from the sewer authority, finalize our erosion and sediment control plans, and complete the application for our HOP. (one of eight million permits that will be needed)

We are pre-approved by the bank and have submitted the required paperwork, but need more complete plans and a final contract to be drawn up before the financing can be finalized.

Our builder has met with the electric company, the water company, and the gas company and has an appointment with the phone and cable people on Wednesday. He is working to complete our contract and draw up our final set of plans.

Then we will need the actual building permits, which we can’t apply for until we have our house plans completed.

It is looking like we will be able to break ground in August, provided we get all of the necessary approvals.

The builder has given us a 4-month time estimate, which means there is a chance we could be in by Christmas. We know how these things work, though, and we have to expect the unexpected, so realistically it might be February before we can move in.

In any case, we should definitely be in by this time next year, which will be nice. In the meantime, we have been having picnics over there pretty frequently, planting trees, and just trying to keep up with the property in general.

PA sure is a great state for practicing the art of patience.  

 

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Kitchen Inspiration

April 26, 2012 By: Stephanie1 Comment

Even though it will still be a little while before we break ground on the house, I’ve been thinking a lot about the design. Especially the kitchen and the bathrooms. Mostly the kitchen.  I feel like I need to have the the kitchen in my head before I can make any other decisions because of the way the house is designed.

Remember our design?

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The kitchen is right smack in the middle of the house and open to everything which will be nice, I think. (We had an open floor plan in our last house and I didn’t love it so much, but it does make sense when you have kids. I might be the one woman in the universe who actually prefers a separated kitchen, but that’s what we have now and it is hard to keep an eye on my children from in there.) 
Eddie and I both agree (for once) that we really like the craftsman, shaker style cabinetry.
But I am in love with painted cabinets and he hates them…a lot. It seems to be a pretty common opinion among men, and I do understand that it stings a bit to spend thousands of dollars on something brand new and made of solid wood and then paint and distress it to make it feel old.  
Eddie wants our kitchen to look like this, only without the curtains. 
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or this

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While the cabinets themselves are lovely, I find that much wood to be really dark, kind of depressing to live in, and a little bit dated. They remind me of the kitchen on Home Improvement. I have no desire whatsoever to spend extended periods of time in either one of those kitchens. (no offense if they are to your taste)
My dream kitchen would look like this
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but a) we probably can’t afford that and b) Eddie lives in our house too, so it’s kind of important that he likes it. 
I’m leaning toward doing two-tone cabinets, which is really trendy right now but I’m nervous because it’s really trendy right now. I don’t want trendy. This is our forever house. This will be our kitchen for 30 or 40 years or more, we hope. I don’t want to make a decision I’ll regret that would cost us an entire year’s salary to redo.
I want the kitchen to be classic, Craftsman, light, have a lot of storage, feel comfortable so we can live in it with three little kids without worrying about messing it up, and have a mix of materials. The last one I’m not set on just yet. Is it just a trend? Will I still love it in ten years? Can we find a compromise we both like? 
Here are a few examples of the two-tone trend

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The first one is my favorite and probably the most realistic for our budget. I want a modern cozy but fancy farmhouse feel. I feel like you can only achieve the look I want with painted cabinets like these:
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I want it to be comfortable, pretty, and a place I actually enjoy spending several hours in every day.I cook a lot, and I do a decent amount of canning, and we will probably spend many a breakfast and lunch sitting at that raised counter and staring into the kitchen. I want to love it, not feel like it belongs in a 90’s sitcom portraying the suburban lifestyle. 
Speaking of cheesy 90’s sitcoms, do you think if I record a tape of myself saying “we need painted cabinets” over and over and play it while Eddie’s sleeping he will wake up with a sudden desire to go along with my plan? It worked on Saved By the Bell.
What do you think of the two tone trend? Are you a fan of painted cabinets or do you prefer the natural wood?

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Building a Dream: New Plan

April 24, 2012 By: Stephaniecomment

We are steadily making progress on the house. Sort of. There’s a lot of hurry up and wait right now.

All of the paperwork is filed with the bank and our sewer plans and application have been submitted and paid for.  Now we just need to be under contract with a builder so we can finalize a construction loan and apply for building permits. Then we’ll wait another few months for the permits to clear.

Changing Plans in Our Home Build

We had fallen in love with a floor plan that we worked with a modular home company to design, but then we fell out of love with that company. They’ve spent about two and a half months wasting our time now and still haven’t gotten back to us with a final cost, although their initial estimates were almost $30,000 over what we wanted to spend and that didn’t even include a garage. We’re not officially saying we’re going to cut ties with them just yet, but we are definitely leaning very hard in that direction. They have been moved to Plan B, anyway.

We met with a private home builder, a man who goes to our church. He has been wonderful about communicating with us and doing what he says he will do within the time frame he gives us. He also comes very highly recommended by people we know and trust. We are waiting for his final costs to come back to us this week, but we are almost positive that it will be significantly lower than the modular company and include the garage. Plus we get a much more comfortable feeling dealing with him.

When we showed him the floor plan we loved, he said there was an architect who sells plans online he had worked with before and he was almost positive that the architect had a very similar floor plan.

We found it. This is the Michaelson from architect Donald Gardner. At the moment, this is our Plan A.

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And we love it even more than the first one because there is an additional half bath for guests, the girls can each have their own closet, the kitchen will have a lot more storage, and there is another entrance from the back yard that goes straight to the bathroom, which is important because we plan to add a pool in the back yard within the next few years. Not to mention it has the garage, which has become the biggest pain so far. We want to enlarge the girls’ bedroom (the one to the left of the porch) and the master closet, but other than that it was almost exactly what we wanted.

The cons are that I will lose a little bit of pantry space and I’m not super thrilled about having a laundry closet instead of a whole utility room, but those are both things I can live with.

Also, it will take longer to build than a modular home would, but I’ve talked to the school and they said they will allow Nicholas to start kindergarten in the fall because we already own the land. Since he won’t need to switch schools in the middle of the year, time isn’t as much of an issue as we thought it might be.

We are thinking we will probably break ground in July and hope to be in by February or March, but these things always take longer than you think they will. In any event, we should be moved in by this time next year. I hope.

Here’s my original post about choosing our lot and floor plan. Sigh, she was a beauty. 

Choosing the Lot and Floor Plan

 

 

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Building a Dream: Part 2

March 4, 2012 By: Stephanie7 Comments

We are moving along on our house project. I feel so blessed to be married to an engineer during this process, because developing land from scratch is incredibly involved, especially here in Pennsylvania where every county is broken into smaller townships or even smaller boroughs, and every township or borough has different rules and regulations. It saves us a lot of time and money because Eddie is able to draw up our plans for things like the sewer, the water lines, the driveway, etc., and stamp them himself.

Choosing the Lot and Floor Plan

Our sewer plan was finally approved at the board meeting this past week, so we will be able to settle on the lot this coming Friday. After that, we can apply for the necessary permits and once they come through, we are hoping to break ground in May. Well, we are really hoping for April but we’re saying May to be realistic.

The main floor will look like this and there will be an unfinished basement and an unfinished second floor that we can expand into eventually.


We have chosen the Sorrento model from Ritz Craft homes, but we did a complete redesign of the floor plan so that it would work better on our lot with the existing driveway and because I hated the galley kitchen layout in the original plan.

The exterior will look like this:

 

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Our lot is 2.4 acres. I am itching to plant a huuuuuuuuge vegetable garden and several fruit trees, but that’s going to have to wait until next year since this year the house will be under construction, obviously. Do you see that entire wall of pantry space in the kitchen nook? Imagine all of the canning I can do.

It’ll be just like Little House on the Prairie, except with indoor plumbing and no typhoid fever.

Our goal is to be moved in by the start of the school year because Nicholas will be going to kindergarten, which will be so adorable because the school is just across the street (actually a gravel road with only two other houses on it) so I can stand on the porch and watch him walk to school once he’s old enough to go by himself.

I already asked for Cracker Barrel rocking chairs for the front porch as my birthday present. My birthday is in mid-September, so we will probably be moving in just before it.

Hopefully this fall this will be our view from the kitchen window. Imagine the corn field at full height and the trees full of red, orange, and yellow leaves. (The borough owns the corn field our lot backs into. The only plans they have for possible future development are to turn this area into a recreational field for the school. Translation: in theory, this view is protected forever.)


I was actually hoping for a lot that was a bit larger and a little more secluded, but this is a perfect location for us. It will cut down Eddie’s commute to just 15 minutes each way, allow us to still attend the same church and preschool, and put Nick in a school district with all-day kindergarten, which is important for him because he needs the structure and he gets quite a few services through the school system and if they can be done in school it will mean far fewer appointments and headaches for me.

Besides, 2.4 acres is plenty. For perspective, That pink speck is Abby and the black one is Nick standing in the middle of the lot, and the building behind the trees in the middle of the photo is the elementary school. This picture was taken from about where our front porch will be.


I’m excited to share our journey with you and I can’t wait until these pictures include some major construction equipment. Hopefully, we are only 6-8 weeks from that point.

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Building a Dream: Part 1

January 20, 2012 By: Stephanie2 Comments

I was going to wait a few more weeks to share this news, but I’m too excited to wait much longer and things seem to be moving pretty quickly now.

We're under contract on our new home build

We have been waiting for this since October when we found the lot, but we wanted to wait until the start of the new year for a few reasons like the new baby coming and tax purposes, etc.

We’re finally under contract on an amazing piece of property! We were able to negotiate a pretty awesome deal because of the way the market is right now.

It’s almost 2 and a half acres, just 15 minutes from Eddie’s office, and right across the street from the elementary school the kids will attend.

Over the course of the next few months, we’ll be working with a modular home company to create our dream home, which we’ve already picked out and started designing. Our goal is to hopefully be in our new home by September when Nicholas starts kindergarten.

My mom is investing in the property with us and in a few years, the plan is to subdivide a smaller lot on the property and build her a little house right next door so that she can retire near her grandkids.

I’ll be sharing the entire process over the next few months & then I hope you’ll stick around as we work on decorating it! 🙂

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